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C.xox-mama Due October 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; St Thomas, Ontario 1365 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting KNZ.:" Did you care? Like, if you 'n your closest friend usually agreed on everything, but she hated the name ... [snip!] ... like talked about it, alot, (assuming you saw each other/or at least spoke daily) did you just brush it off or get annoyed? "

I'd probably tell her to either shut the hell up about it and get over it or just piss off. It's mine and SO Choice not yours. How would you like it if i said i
hated your kids names? <--- but im kinda a b***h when it comes to my kids stuff. Thats only if she just wouldnt stop mentioning it though if she just said it like once i would let it roll off

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 20544 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting KNZ.:" Like, she knows i don't love the middle name, but also that i can't change it now. But she keeps saying the name together then being like, "gross." "


That's very rude and you should tell her that it's hurts your feelings, especially after you explained why you chose that name.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Bangtail:" No one liked my oldest son's name because they thought it was too old fashioned. My dad even joked around ... [snip!] ... I have to do is tell her and she will stop. She doesn't mean to hurt people's feelings, she's just missing a sensitivity chip."


Good point.
My friend knows i'm not in love with the middle name dude chose but since it's not going to change, i wish she'd say less negative stuff about it.



The name's Quinn Stephen.

existentialism 2 kids; Texas 16990 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting KNZ.:" Good point. My friend knows i'm not in love with the middle name dude chose but since it's not going to change, i wish she'd say less negative stuff about it. The name's Quinn Stephen. "

That's a cute name! And btw, lol, Stephen is one of the middle names we're using.. it's my husband's middle name.

lunch lady 2 kids; Tennessee 2123 posts
11th Feb '13

Doesn't sound like a very good friend to continue to bring it up. I'd tell her that too. She needs to stfu.

BabyJsMama 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Thailand 4358 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting KNZ.:" What sucks is i don't love the name either- well, like, part of it, but I made compromises with my dude to honor a family member so i can't just not use it, ya know? "


Well you're BFF's you can't tell her that?..I mean if you're not all YAY over the name yourself she should be more on your side to boost you up, right? I understand how compromise goes on a name, I wasn't a fan of my daughters name at first, but it suits her so well now that I wouldn't change it for anything.

lauren 3 kids; Virginia 32105 posts
11th Feb '13

I would never tell my best friend that I hated the name chosen for her baby. I can't imagine ever being like, "Ew I hate that. Why would you pick that?" I'm sorry she's telling you that.

Charlee ♥ Jensen 3 kids; Iowa 56325 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting KNZ.:" Me neither, if it was just once."


Right. If she went on and on about how stupid it was or how much she hated it...I would get pissed.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting awesomebrandi:" That's a cute name! And btw, lol, Stephen is one of the middle names we're using.. it's my husband's middle name."


:D it's my dude's dad's name.
Also the last guy i dated before him, but uh..yeah haha



His last name ends in an "N" (but it's longer/3 syllables) so i agree it's an overload of N sounds but it's not like we're all gonna go around using all three of his names every time we talk to him :)

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting lauren♥:" I would never tell my best friend that I hated the name chosen for her baby. I can't imagine ever being like, "Ew I hate that. Why would you pick that?" I'm sorry she's telling you that. "


right? i'm with you.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting BabyJsMama:" Well you're BFF's you can't tell her that?..I mean if you're not all YAY over the name yourself she ... [snip!] ... on a name, I wasn't a fan of my daughters name at first, but it suits her so well now that I wouldn't change it for anything. "


That's exactly my thought! Like, if something's not gonna change- for valid reasons- find ways to get onboard with it, don't bash it- when you ARE gonna use it :?

BabyJsMama 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Thailand 4358 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting KNZ.:" Good point. My friend knows i'm not in love with the middle name dude chose but since it's not going to change, i wish she'd say less negative stuff about it. The name's Quinn Stephen. "


I LOVE the name Quinn. Stephen doesn't sound bad after it at all. Are you gonna call the kid by his full name every time you talk to him? Gotta tell her to just shut up about it already and that it's bumming you out.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting BabyJsMama:" I LOVE the name Quinn. Stephen doesn't sound bad after it at all. Are you gonna call the kid by his ... [snip!] ... kid by his full name every time you talk to him? Gotta tell her to just shut up about it already and that it's bumming you out."


exactly what i said :D

Lara +2 2 kids; Wasilla, Alaska 7720 posts
11th Feb '13

I hated the name my BFF chose, until it was born and I couldn't see the baby being named anything else. Maybe it will grow on her!

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Lara +2:" I hated the name my BFF chose, until it was born and I couldn't see the baby being named anything else. Maybe it will grow on her!"


hopefully. it's not even like, a crazy name haha. (Quinn Stephen)