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user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting desert☮rain:" You're not a rebel. You are the only person here who should have commented! I don't believe in or agree ... [snip!] ... not like OP will just change her mind when she sees the harsh words that were said, doesn't take a genius to figure that out. "

what was so mean?

desert☮rain 1 child; Phoenix, Arizona 7674 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" what was so mean?"

I actually gasped when I saw the first reply, the GIF. That was rude. The rest of the posts seem to be mocking her beliefs

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" So women who have snapped all their crayons shouldn't receive love? "


i was saying that the logic behind the senerio may be ''lost'' if the participants arent ''playing w/a full deck'' ,not that either party shouldnt recieve respect and love. The person needing mental health intervention may not be capable of showing love/respect in a proper fashion and more than likely will require more of both from their partner.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting desert☮rain:" You're not a rebel. You are the only person here who should have commented! I don't believe in or agree ... [snip!] ... not like OP will just change her mind when she sees the harsh words that were said, doesn't take a genius to figure that out. "


Thank you. It seems like most people must of missed the big bold letters '' To all Christian Wives....'' at the top of the page,lol. I have plenty of ''non-believing'' friends that dont see eye to eye w/me on most things but like mature adults we ''agree to disagree'' :)

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting 6 blessings so far....:" Thank you. It seems like most people must of missed the big bold letters '' To all Christian Wives....'' ... [snip!] ... of ''non-believing'' friends that dont see eye to eye w/me on most things but like mature adults we ''agree to disagree'' :)"


Who says that some of the ladies who have replied laughing at OP are not Christian? People don't have to agree with everything.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting 6 blessings so far....:" I will be the rebel and stand unite with OP.To understand the logic behind following your husbands ''headship'' ... [snip!] ... he craves they are more likely to give their wife the love they need.(if there are no underlying mental illnesses at hand) "


Kings and Queens are generally related and in an arranged marriage. Also Queens had no other use than to look pretty, turn a blind eye to mistresses, and produce heirs.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting Destiel:" Kings and Queens are generally related and in an arranged marriage. Also Queens had no other use than to look pretty, turn a blind eye to mistresses, and produce heirs."


:!:
Pretty much.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" :!: Pretty much. "


European and Ottoman history is my thing :)

Aramis TTC since Dec 2010; 16 kids; Birmingham, Alabama 21 posts
12th Feb '13

Amen 5 peas!

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting Destiel:" Kings and Queens are generally related and in an arranged marriage. Also Queens had no other use than to look pretty, turn a blind eye to mistresses, and produce heirs."


i was refering to the strong queen leaders of true kingdoms, not the false ''arm candy'' chosen by some kings to acheive a dictatorship under the guises of a ''kingdom''

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16145 posts
status 12th Feb '13

OP are you a follower of ATI/Bill Gothard?

*KatteyBug* Due November 18 (boy); 1 child; Madison, AL, United States 2383 posts
status 12th Feb '13

I agree with you for the most part OP. Did you say you had a thread that talks about this? I'm not one to totally let my husband take full "reign" in the relationship, but we do mutually respect one another and he discusses things with me and I with him before we make any major decision. I guess that goes along with your King & Queen comparison.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting 6 blessings so far....:" i was refering to the strong queen leaders of true kingdoms, not the false ''arm candy'' chosen by some kings to acheive a dictatorship under the guises of a ''kingdom'' "


The only queen I remember being treated as an equal and shown respect and love was Esther.

user banned 1 child; Nunya, CA, United States 6369 posts
12th Feb '13

Thanks for the good read.



I am in an abstinent relationship ATM but hope to be enticing someone in the near future! :D

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
12th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" i was refering to the strong queen leaders of true kingdoms, not the false ''arm candy'' chosen by some kings to acheive a dictatorship under the guises of a ''kingdom'' "</blockquote>



You make no sense and clearly know nothing about history.