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Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 105282 posts
status 12th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Ya but most the time it becomes everyones problem"</blockquote>




Because people can't mind their own business

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14181 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Ya but most the time it becomes everyones problem"


Not necessarily. The people who have problem with FS and feeding hungry kids are usually bitter, close-minded and ignorant to how the government actually works. If there were no food stamps or Medicaid, the rich would be richer and the poor would be poorer. That's a problem.

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
12th Feb '13

Let me explain what I meant. Women who keep having children in sub-standard surrondings usually do not teach their children respect, good ethics morals etc. NOT ALL! These chidlren grow up in surroundings that alot of times the are forced into becoming a criminal. Yes I know it happens with rich people to. God help us all when Kim and Kenyas child gets older

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59981 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Let me explain what I meant. Women who keep having children in sub-standard surrondings usually do not ... [snip!] ... into becoming a criminal. Yes I know it happens with rich people to. God help us all when Kim and Kenyas child gets older"


I know what you're getting at.... but I think you're way over-stereotyping. Plenty of people without much instill good manners and morals into their children. Not all. But then again... plenty of rich people don't teach their own children good manners, respect, etc.



And haha to Kenya.

DisneyMommy 34 kids; Florida 6301 posts
12th Feb '13

I think it is very stupid to keep popping out kids you can not provide a decent lifestyle for, but not my life or kids,. Known a few like that,. if they are happy then cool doesn't bother me any just dont come crying to me that you dont have shit.



(I am very pro-assistance for needy families, not anti-welfare in the slightest, just dont think it is smart or fair to the kids in the long run,.

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 67238 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting LeTs*StArT*a*RiOt!:" Wow you sound incredibly jealous and bitter. Did they tell you that you make too much for food stamps or something?"


She's very bitter. Any kind of assistance thread, she's all over it like fly on shit.

JnMsMommy** 2 kids; Brooklyn, NY, United States 5741 posts
12th Feb '13

i know in NYC you have to work for it

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Let me explain what I meant. Women who keep having children in sub-standard surrondings usually do not ... [snip!] ... into becoming a criminal. Yes I know it happens with rich people to. God help us all when Kim and Kenyas child gets older"


My kids don't even know we get FS. It's supplemental food assistance. I do still pay out of pocket for food towards the end of the month because I tend to require a more specialized diet.

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting The Doctor:" I know what you're getting at.... but I think you're way over-stereotyping. Plenty of people without ... [snip!] ... all. But then again... plenty of rich people don't teach their own children good manners, respect, etc. And haha to Kenya."


Oh I agree..I guess it;s to explain in writing lol..I guess what I am getting at is when parents feel they are "entitled" or have the "right" to have children without thinking of their children and they don't raise them with respect etc..they become everyones problem..crime etc..for example. Having a child for more money..if thats the only reason why they are having more kids then obviously there is going to be issues, then it affects many others..

ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
12th Feb '13

I don't think it's that smart of a decision but I honestly am not bothered by those that do it. It's not my business. The only welfare I receive and have ever received is FS and medicaid. Our FS has decreased a lot since we have had it and it's too the point where it helps out some but I am still buying groceries out of pocket which is not a problem for me. Since being on welfare though I have found it very hard and stressful and most definitely not a lifestyle I want to grow accustomed too. I am very proud of myself for where I am today and am hoping to wean myself off so I can eventually have 1 more before I am no longer able.

Fatty McRunnerPants 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Clearlake, California 59390 posts
12th Feb '13

I think it's disgusting. I see it alot where a parent will come in will be what's called "timed out" (aka, they've received 48 months of cash aid for themselves) and have had their 5th child by the 4th father. It's like "way to promote the stereotype, jackass".

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
12th Feb '13

I think having more kids or any while on welfare or in a bad finanical situation is stupid.



And honestly I would like to know what people will do when our country runs of of money for things like food stamps and medical insurance. Will you stop having kids because you actually lost your safety net or just bring them into a life of poverty? I would never have kids and bring them into a life where I couldn't afford them, ever. But stuff happens and I believe that is what assistance should be used for as a temporary safety net to a short term problem.

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
12th Feb '13

It's wrong to be on welfare and TTC and popping babies out left and fucking right. Its irresponsible and it makes you a shitty person. My opinion on that will never change. stop having babies if you can't even feed them!

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27791 posts
12th Feb '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" Ive learned in life that every time you point a finger you have 3 pointing back at you. Take it from ... [snip!] ... you have. The real problem is the government making it so easy to be on welfare and so difficult and costly to retain a job. "


This. This 100%



I really hate how people put their noses up at those on assistance and dont even take a moment to see what the real situation. "OMG they have an expensive phone, they are CHEATERS of the system!" But did they ask how they acquired the phone, or when? "Oh they have internet!" When internet can be dirt cheap and necessary to even find a job or go to school. The same with a phone, its like those on assistance are supposed to go to a pay phone. Sell all expensive items they ever owned. It's stupid to me and very "lets point our fingers and cast blame and not look at the real problem" kind of situation.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
12th Feb '13

I think they must be pretty damn stupid because the max benefit payout starts at $220/mo for a family of 2 and tops at $791/mo for a family of 12. I couldn't make my bills for myself and my child with $791 a month, how the fuck are you supposed to provide for 12?