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Would it bother you.... Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13

Would it bother you/upset you/anger you, whatever, if your boyfriend/fiancee was going to his soon to be ex wife's house on his lunch break several times a week, if not everyday?



Why or why not?

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
13th Feb '13

:shock:



Um, yes. A lot. Why is he doing that?

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
13th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vile Tramp:</b>" Would it bother you/upset you/anger you, whatever, if your boyfriend/fiancee was going to his soon to be ex wife's house on his lunch break several times a week, if not everyday? Why or why not? "</blockquote>




Not right away I would ask wtf is up but I wouldn't be happy for sure

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" :shock: Um, yes. A lot. Why is he doing that?"


I have no idea. He just shows up and because this is our "marital" house, I have no means to stop him.




** I'm the ex wife, not the girlfriend/fiancee.

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18556 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" :shock: Um, yes. A lot. Why is he doing that?"



:!:

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13935 posts
13th Feb '13

Depends on whether they have kids together and the kids are there or not.



If not, then ya, that would bother me. There's too much history there for me to just push it aside.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59253 posts
13th Feb '13

Yes.
For the obvious reasons.

Tasha & Nika Due December 22 (boy); 1 child; San Jose, CA, United States 16042 posts
13th Feb '13

Depends - are there kids? If so, possibly not, it'd only bother me if he hadn't told me and I'd still find out.



If no kids are involved.. or the kids are clearly at school or something, then yes, I would be upset because I fail to see the reason why..

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
13th Feb '13

Um yes!



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user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" I have no idea. He just shows up and because this is our "marital" house, I have no means to stop him. ** I'm the ex wife, not the girlfriend/fiancee. "

Are you hooking up? lol.



If I was the GF I'd be ticked off.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
13th Feb '13

Abso-freakin-lutely. I wouldn't need an explanation, I would automatically assume he was cheating and leave him. There's just no way I'd put up with that. It'd be the same thing if I did that to him, also. It's just not normal in the least IMO.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Are you hooking up? lol. If I was the GF I'd be ticked off. "


Oh god fucking no! Lol.



He tattoo'd her name on his "member" ( he told me after we first separated), and there is NO way in FUCK I would help him cheat on her, like he cheated on me. No way, no how.

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13935 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" I have no idea. He just shows up and because this is our "marital" house, I have no means to stop him. ** I'm the ex wife, not the girlfriend/fiancee. "


so he's just showing up at your house :?



Idk about you, but when I break up with someone I typically don't want to be around them if I don't have to be. And I would make that damn clear.

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
13th Feb '13

Do they have kids together?

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" so he's just showing up at your house :? Idk about you, but when I break up with someone I typically don't want to be around them if I don't have to be. And I would make that damn clear."


Yepp.. I don't enjoy being around him, but seeing as how we have 2 children together, I am pretty much forced to be around him.



But my lawyer said that I cannot physically keep him out of our property without him having legal recourse against me. :?.