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Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:" Do they have kids together?"


Yes. We have two children together.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59255 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" Yepp.. I don't enjoy being around him, but seeing as how we have 2 children together, I am pretty much ... [snip!] ... But my lawyer said that I cannot physically keep him out of our property without him having legal recourse against me. :?. "


That would be so annoying :?
I wonder if his girl-person knows.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13

The reason I'm asking is because I've asking him NUMEROUS times, if she minds that he comes here. And he insists she doesn't.. Which makes me believe he doesn't tell her, because frankly, I would be livid if I were her.



I'm just making sure I'm not crazy for thinking it's a little odd that she wouldn't care.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14304 posts
13th Feb '13

Yeah it would but if he's going just to see the kids I guess it would be alright. Assuming he keeps up with his visitation/custody schedule.

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13935 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" Yepp.. I don't enjoy being around him, but seeing as how we have 2 children together, I am pretty much ... [snip!] ... But my lawyer said that I cannot physically keep him out of our property without him having legal recourse against me. :?. "


that's such bullshit.
Was the house not awarded to you in the divorce, or are you still just separated??
usually that stuff is outlined and he should have no right to just barge in.

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13935 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting KNZ.:" That would be so annoying :? I wonder if his girl-person knows. "


If not I would totally tell her.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
13th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vivian [♥]:</b>" If not I would totally tell her."</blockquote>




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Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" If not I would totally tell her."


I've thought about it, but honestly, it's not my place and I doubt she would believe me regardless. Seeing as how I am the "ex" wife and all.



I tried to tell her when I first found out about her, that we were having sex up until he told me on Thanksgiving he wanted a divorce... He denied it and she believed him. I can't see this being any different.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" that's such bullshit. Was the house not awarded to you in the divorce, or are you still just separated?? usually that stuff is outlined and he should have no right to just barge in."


Our separation agreement, which will turn into our divorce decree, is being written up next week. Until then, I'm stuck in limbo here. I can't even legally change the locks.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" Depends on whether they have kids together and the kids are there or not. If not, then ya, that would bother me. There's too much history there for me to just push it aside."


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Jeronimo 2 kids; California 1436 posts
13th Feb '13

Are the kids there when he goes? And is that the purpose of the visits?

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Jeronimo:" Are the kids there when he goes? And is that the purpose of the visits?"



We have 2 kids, only 1 is here between his lunch ( our oldest is 8 ).



And I mean he can claim it's a visit but it's not really. He sits on the couch, I go about cleaning or whatever, or we stand in the kitchen and talk. Up until maybe a week ago he still asked me to make him lunch... Which I refuse to do... :roll:

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14304 posts
13th Feb '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" We have 2 kids, only 1 is here between his lunch ( our oldest is 8 ). And I mean he can claim it's ... [snip!] ... stand in the kitchen and talk. Up until maybe a week ago he still asked me to make him lunch... Which I refuse to do... :roll: "


Sounds like he wants the milk without buying the cow if you KWIM. She probably doesn't care because her lazy ass doesn't have to make him lunch.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
13th Feb '13

My ex comes over like that too...



I can't stop him if he's training over here, he always stops by, we do have 1 kid together...



I think he does it to piss her off, I think its funny... dosnt bother me at all... that's why I'm not with him... he'll never be with just 1 chick, and she's dumb to stay with him...



He got my portrait *AFTER* we broke up, and *WHILE* they were together... Shes dumb lol

Jeronimo 2 kids; California 1436 posts
13th Feb '13

I'm assuming your house is close to his work. Was this his normal routine before separation, coming home for lunch? He might still be adjusting to the whole thing. And well, asking for lunch is probably a force of habit.