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Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:" Do they have kids together?"


Yes. We have two children together.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59255 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" Yepp.. I don't enjoy being around him, but seeing as how we have 2 children together, I am pretty much ... [snip!] ... But my lawyer said that I cannot physically keep him out of our property without him having legal recourse against me. :?. "


That would be so annoying :?
I wonder if his girl-person knows.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Feb 13th '13

The reason I'm asking is because I've asking him NUMEROUS times, if she minds that he comes here. And he insists she doesn't.. Which makes me believe he doesn't tell her, because frankly, I would be livid if I were her.



I'm just making sure I'm not crazy for thinking it's a little odd that she wouldn't care.

Vivian Due August 26; 2 kids; Austin, TX, United States 14240 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" Yepp.. I don't enjoy being around him, but seeing as how we have 2 children together, I am pretty much ... [snip!] ... But my lawyer said that I cannot physically keep him out of our property without him having legal recourse against me. :?. "


that's such bullshit.
Was the house not awarded to you in the divorce, or are you still just separated??
usually that stuff is outlined and he should have no right to just barge in.

Vivian Due August 26; 2 kids; Austin, TX, United States 14240 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting KNZ.:" That would be so annoying :? I wonder if his girl-person knows. "


If not I would totally tell her.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
Feb 13th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vivian [♥]:</b>" If not I would totally tell her."</blockquote>




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Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" If not I would totally tell her."


I've thought about it, but honestly, it's not my place and I doubt she would believe me regardless. Seeing as how I am the "ex" wife and all.



I tried to tell her when I first found out about her, that we were having sex up until he told me on Thanksgiving he wanted a divorce... He denied it and she believed him. I can't see this being any different.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" that's such bullshit. Was the house not awarded to you in the divorce, or are you still just separated?? usually that stuff is outlined and he should have no right to just barge in."


Our separation agreement, which will turn into our divorce decree, is being written up next week. Until then, I'm stuck in limbo here. I can't even legally change the locks.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" Depends on whether they have kids together and the kids are there or not. If not, then ya, that would bother me. There's too much history there for me to just push it aside."


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Jeronimo 2 kids; California 1436 posts
Feb 13th '13

Are the kids there when he goes? And is that the purpose of the visits?

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting Jeronimo:" Are the kids there when he goes? And is that the purpose of the visits?"



We have 2 kids, only 1 is here between his lunch ( our oldest is 8 ).



And I mean he can claim it's a visit but it's not really. He sits on the couch, I go about cleaning or whatever, or we stand in the kitchen and talk. Up until maybe a week ago he still asked me to make him lunch... Which I refuse to do... :roll:

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 8830 posts
Feb 13th '13

My ex comes over like that too...



I can't stop him if he's training over here, he always stops by, we do have 1 kid together...



I think he does it to piss her off, I think its funny... dosnt bother me at all... that's why I'm not with him... he'll never be with just 1 chick, and she's dumb to stay with him...



He got my portrait *AFTER* we broke up, and *WHILE* they were together... Shes dumb lol

Jeronimo 2 kids; California 1436 posts
Feb 13th '13

I'm assuming your house is close to his work. Was this his normal routine before separation, coming home for lunch? He might still be adjusting to the whole thing. And well, asking for lunch is probably a force of habit.

Vivian Due August 26; 2 kids; Austin, TX, United States 14240 posts
Feb 13th '13
Quoting Vile Tramp:" I've thought about it, but honestly, it's not my place and I doubt she would believe me regardless. ... [snip!] ... he told me on Thanksgiving he wanted a divorce... He denied it and she believed him. I can't see this being any different. "


lmao, if I'm the ex I don't give a shit what my "place" is or to take the woman he cheated withs feelings in consideration.



Only reason I would tell her is so it would cause a fight between them and maybe he would stop coming over. I'd take pictures of him there and everything.

talexys 1 child; Ontario 1235 posts
Feb 13th '13

yes it would...of course it would.