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*mommy kelsey*7 weeks Due October 1; 19 kids; Washington 656 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting I love Kenzi:" or she already has 3 and a miscarriage not too long b4. sometimes i say shit and people take it the ... [snip!] ... i was in control not them and guess what? they called my bluff. didnt get to see dd for 3 months now they have a better tude. "


My oldest two are from my ex husband and my youngest is from my current husband and our daughter passed away. I am now pregnant with another one of his children. I lost my daughter shortly after birth..not a miscarriage.

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting *mommy kelsey*7 weeks:" shes met him 3 times. I am pretty sure you don't know someone after that long."



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Do you call her to vent about your fights and relationship problems?

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *mommy kelsey*7 weeks:</b>" shes met him 3 times. I am pretty sure you don't know someone after that long."</blockquote>




Okay. So then, please help me understand that mental abuse she's out you through since being little girls? What has she done before she met your husband that she was being abusive to you?

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
14th Feb '13

She just found out im pregnant again which I didn't plan and I just lost my baby in september and she goes oh wow you're keeping it??



Ok 1. unplanned baby
2. fights with spouse
3. recent miscarriage may be health issues involved
4. 3 other children to care for
5. Id ask if you were keeping the baby too b4 i went out and bought a gift and threw a party

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany ღ:</b>" But yet, her sister doesn't know him ... [snip!] ... moments. I'm sorry but if my family members only see the negative side of my relationship then clearly something is wrong!"


Oh well I didn't see that part.... idk it just seemed to me like everyone was attacking her a little, so I stepped in. And red bottoms is like interrogating the shit out of her when you can tell the poor girl is already flipping out and stressing over the situation.



Also, I totally just sung your name out.....heeeeeeeeeeeeey, sexy ladaaaay. Lmfao..

*mommy kelsey*7 weeks Due October 1; 19 kids; Washington 656 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting I love Kenzi:" She just found out im pregnant again which I didn't plan and I just lost my baby in september and she ... [snip!] ... 4. 3 other children to care for 5. Id ask if you were keeping the baby too b4 i went out and bought a gift and threw a party"


I am very against abortion..she knows this and she knows my husband was adopted and would never give his baby away and for her to say um youre keeping it which being my sister she knows damn well im keeping my baby She should not have to ask.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
14th Feb '13

alright so you lost a full term child. another great reason to question. Im not saying its bad to keep the new child but there are alot of factors that would suprise a caring family member

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting *mommy kelsey*7 weeks:" I am very against abortion..she knows this and she knows my husband was adopted and would never give ... [snip!] ... and for her to say um youre keeping it which being my sister she knows damn well im keeping my baby She should not have to ask."


it was just a question. it was a bitchy thing to ask but not out of the realm of possibility. you are going overboard. she didnt say you should have an abortion

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting *mommy kelsey*7 weeks:" I am very against abortion..she knows this and she knows my husband was adopted and would never give ... [snip!] ... and for her to say um youre keeping it which being my sister she knows damn well im keeping my baby She should not have to ask."


Did you sister take Mind Reading 101 at her boarding school?



Plenty of people who get abortions are against abortion.



Plenty people who are adopted are pro-adoption.

*mommy kelsey*7 weeks Due October 1; 19 kids; Washington 656 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Did you sister take Mind Reading 101 at her boarding school? Plenty of people who get abortions are against abortion. Plenty people who are adopted are pro-adoption. "



why would you say are you keeping it to someone who already lost their child and you know is against abortion. BTW if I was planning to get an abortion I wouldn't be going around telling people I was pregnant id get it n move on.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27169 posts
status 14th Feb '13
Quoting *mommy kelsey*7 weeks:" SHE DOESNT KNOW HIM!!"


You know, if she REALLY doesnt know him, she probably is going off what YOU say. So YOU probably b***h about him and then when she turns around and says she doesnt like him, you go apeshit and say "WELL f**k YOU, YOU DONT KNOW HIM!" I don't know... seriously... most normal people, well most even stupidly insane people dont just say "Oh you are dating him? How nice. I THIK I WILL HATE HIM AND MAKE YOUR LIFE HELL!" Really, honestly... I dont see it that way.

*mommy kelsey*7 weeks Due October 1; 19 kids; Washington 656 posts
14th Feb '13

I am done with all this I am exhausted. I just needed to vent not be attacked. Have a good night everyone.

Red Bottom TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15307 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting *mommy kelsey*7 weeks:" why would you say are you keeping it to someone who already lost their child and you know is against ... [snip!] ... BTW if I was planning to get an abortion I wouldn't be going around telling people I was pregnant id get it n move on."


Maybe you would, plenty of people decide on abortion weeks after finding out they're pregnant. You have an unplanned pregnancy shortly after a loss, I can see where she'd wonder what you were going to do.

*mommy kelsey*7 weeks Due October 1; 19 kids; Washington 656 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" You know, if she REALLY doesnt know him, she probably is going off what YOU say. So YOU probably b***h ... [snip!] ... "Oh you are dating him? How nice. I THIK I WILL HATE HIM AND MAKE YOUR LIFE HELL!" Really, honestly... I dont see it that way."


Ive never bitched about my husband to her cuz I know shes very judgemental and would start drama. Good night though.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *mommy kelsey*7 weeks:</b>" I am done with all this I am exhausted. I just needed to vent not be attacked. Have a good night everyone."</blockquote>



Before you leave, can you please answer my question?