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Justaconfusedgirl12 Due October 1; Los Angeles, California 33 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I think that 14 and pregnant is bad enough. "</blockquote>




Yeah you're right

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Justaconfusedgirl12:" He's 19 now. But I have nothing to do with him. Would saying like that it was from a situation I could ... [snip!] ... better? Or worse? I mean she can't really blame me then. But at the same time I don't want her to see the baby in a poor light."


Honey. Being honest would do you best... It would make things ten times worse to claim it was out of your control at 14... That would start a lot of trouble.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Justaconfusedgirl12:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I think that 14 and pregnant is bad enough. "</blockquote> Yeah you're right"


What are you thinking right now? I know you want to keep it. But I dont see that as an option. Just talk to your aunt. Write her a letter saying that you are pregnant. And see where it goes.

Justaconfusedgirl12 Due October 1; Los Angeles, California 33 posts
14th Feb '13

That I want to keep him or her.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Justaconfusedgirl12:" That I want to keep him or her."


Do you realize you cant get a job right now? You are going to have to deal with the guy that is half of your baby to get custody, child support, and for the rest of your childs life whether you like it or not.



How are you planning on affording everything?

Justaconfusedgirl12 Due October 1; Los Angeles, California 33 posts
14th Feb '13

I got a message from someone on here which was of some service. I guess in that case maybe I should tell that it was out of my control. I mean then I don't have to deal with him right?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Justaconfusedgirl12:" I got a message from someone on here which was of some service. I guess in that case maybe I should tell that it was out of my control. I mean then I don't have to deal with him right?"

What did that message say?



Did he rape you or not? How does making it out of your control have anything to not dealing with him?

Justaconfusedgirl12 Due October 1; Los Angeles, California 33 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" What did that message say? Did he rape you or not? How does making it out of your control have anything to not dealing with him? "</blockquote>




I'm in America I believe if it isn't consensual the sperm donor can't get custody.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Justaconfusedgirl12:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" What did that message say? Did he ... [snip!] ... dealing with him? "</blockquote> I'm in America I believe if it isn't consensual the sperm donor can't get custody."


WHAT?! That is the funniest thing I have EVER heard. That is not true. I know a bunch of people that can tell you that is not true...

Justaconfusedgirl12 Due October 1; Los Angeles, California 33 posts
14th Feb '13

You're in San Marino.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Justaconfusedgirl12:" You're I'm San Marino."


No. I actually live in Delaware. I think San Marino is pretty, so I put my location to there. And Im 25. I have 1 child that I am raising, placed a child for adoption and had an abortion. What that person told you is NOT true. Do you know how many women would claim this just so the father would not be able to see the child?

Justaconfusedgirl12 Due October 1; Los Angeles, California 33 posts
14th Feb '13

Well honestly I just looked it up. It said anyone under 18 in California can't consent. So that's my proof. I guess with that I could threaten him if he does try to seek custody he'll be dealing with stat rape charges. My baby is a the proof to show he didn't work within California laws.

Justaconfusedgirl12 Due October 1; Los Angeles, California 33 posts
14th Feb '13

Plus he's in college and has a gf of his own. He wouldn't want to ruin his life. I think he'd have no interest in pursuing custody. His family wouldn't want to know that he had gotten me pregnant anyhow. They've got pretty lucrative jobs. And I'm from a lower income family. It would probably hurt his circle of friends anyhow.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26; 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
14th Feb '13

Oh my god. Your last two posts.... You definitely need to mature a hell of a lot if you are going to be a mother.



1. Don't cry rape. If he legit raped you you should have pressed charges and shoild at least seek help. The fact that you are using statutory rape in the same sense as rape is appalling not to mention insensitive to the women on here who are victims of rape. I am assuming that's the case because of how blas

GL♣PC♥BC 3 kids; Atlanta, GA, United States 9395 posts
14th Feb '13
of\Quoting Justaconfusedgirl12:" Plus he's in college and has a gf of his own. He wouldn't want to ruin his life. I think he'd have no ... [snip!] ... They've got pretty lucrative jobs. And I'm from a lower income family. It would probably hurt his circle of friends anyhow."


You're only thinking about yourself in the scenario. You need to take a step back and think about that embryo and what kind of life you can give it versus what type of life it SHOULD have. On top of that you want to push the father out of it's life, news flash, a father has just as many rights as a mother, let alone a 14 mom. Do you really want to have a 5-6 year old before you can legally have a drink?



Don't be selfish. Use what common sense your 14 year old brain can muster up