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kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8737 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" I trust my SO to not do anything with anyone else but I don't trust other girls to not at least try. I wouldn't want a girl trying to mack on my husband, or worse, even if he rejects her."</blockquote>



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Kylie's👣Mommy. 1 child; 1 angel baby; Texas 3476 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" LMAO this!! That's just another ... [snip!] ... Did that make any sense? Idk if I have now confused everyone lol idk I'm tired. My cat decided to keep me up all damn night lol"</blockquote>




If you fully trust your SO it doesn't matter if a girl is a home wrecking whore. If he's truly a good man then no worries. :)

Lilly and Laya's momma Due May 25; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 7886 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" LMAO this!! That's just another ... [snip!] ... Did that make any sense? Idk if I have now confused everyone lol idk I'm tired. My cat decided to keep me up all damn night lol"


Yes but your trusting your SO/hubby is what matters because HE is the one who will make that decision to stay faithful so in essence it shouldn't matter with other women:wink:

Kylie's👣Mommy. 1 child; 1 angel baby; Texas 3476 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" I trust my SO to not do anything with anyone else but I don't trust other girls to not at least try. I wouldn't want a girl trying to mack on my husband, or worse, even if he rejects her."</blockquote>




Well if you trust him, then it don't matter if girls try. Because they will. Just like I'm sure guys try with you. A relationship without trust is a pointless relationship.

Kylie's👣Mommy. 1 child; 1 angel baby; Texas 3476 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" Yes but your trusting your SO/hubby is what matters because HE is the one who will make that decision to stay faithful so in essence it shouldn't matter with other women:wink:"</blockquote>




!!! Exactly.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" Yes but your trusting your SO/hubby is what matters because HE is the one who will make that decision to stay faithful so in essence it shouldn't matter with other women:wink:"</blockquote>




Yeah I see what you all mean. When I was ina previous relationship I hated when women hit on him even when I knew he wouldn't do anything. I just hate when women go after a taken man.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Kylie's
Kylie's👣Mommy. 1 child; 1 angel baby; Texas 3476 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" You're seriously reading way too far into what I said, lol. I do trust my husband, I know with 100% ... [snip!] ... him to not do anything, but because I know that not everyone has the same morals as us to not try and mess with a married man."</blockquote>




Lol okay.

...lll 1 child; Rutland, Vermont 1400 posts
14th Feb '13

i guess jealous is the wrong word... im just irritated this girl is flirting with someone who is obviously in a relationship

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1804 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" You're seriously reading way too far into what I said, lol. I do trust my husband, I know with 100% ... [snip!] ... him to not do anything, but because I know that not everyone has the same morals as us to not try and mess with a married man."</blockquote>




It still comes down to whether or not he initiates it, if he is faithful then he will tell the girl to leave him alone and walk away and you won't have to worry about what the other girl does.

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7276 posts
14th Feb '13

I think your over reaacting. You said the convo was casual & winky faces don't mean she wants to get with your DH. Whenever I reconnect with an old friend/ bf/ whatever, we tend to chat a lot at first. Catching up is all. As long as she doesn't flirt with him then I wouldn't worry

[38 weeks!] Due May 31 (boy); 1 child; Colorado 3032 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting Salad Fingers:" You're seriously reading way too far into what I said, lol. I do trust my husband, I know with 100% ... [snip!] ... him to not do anything, but because I know that not everyone has the same morals as us to not try and mess with a married man."


I get what you are saying. I feel the same way. Lol.

...lll 1 child; Rutland, Vermont 1400 posts
14th Feb '13
Quoting M walls:" I think your over reaacting. You said the convo was casual & winky faces don't mean she wants to get ... [snip!] ... whatever, we tend to chat a lot at first. Catching up is all. As long as she doesn't flirt with him then I wouldn't worry"


i just think its ironic that shes recently single and friend requesting and messaging him

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1804 posts
14th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krystie321:</b>" i just think its ironic that shes recently single and friend requesting and messaging him"</blockquote>




I don't blame you for feeling that way, I would too and he would know it lol I'm kind of horrible at hiding my feeling from my DH. Have you told him your uncomfortable with it?