Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes -- Votes: 24
    • No -- Votes: 80
Could you be with someone if..... user banned
15th Feb '13

You didnt think they were attractive?

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
15th Feb '13

Nope. Sure couldn't.

Sofie+#2 2 kids; Sheffield, So, United Kingdom 7799 posts
15th Feb '13

I voted yes, but only to an extent.. It's hard.

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40239 posts
15th Feb '13

Hm, yes and no.

brodyzmom Due December 18 (girl); 1 child; 3 angel babies; Huntsville, Alabama 2792 posts
15th Feb '13

No, although I've been attracted to different people for different reasons.

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
15th Feb '13

Nope there needs to be some level of physical attraction for me. Its not all about looks by any means but I couldn't be with someone I found repulsive.

Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2401 posts
15th Feb '13

I'm assuming you mean appearance? I answered no.. I find someone attractive by their personality, you can be drop dead gorgeous but if you're an a*****e, you're not attractive to me and I wont find you...good..looking anymore, as your assholeness overrides the good looks.. KWIM?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
15th Feb '13

I say yes because when I first met DH I though he was cute but wasnt really attracted to him. That all changed once we had sex lmao! Now I think he's soo hot and I'm so attracted to him. I saw how great of a guy he was and how good he treated me, made me laugh and how hard he worked so I overlooked the attraction thing at first. It's weird how things can change.

Commander Shepard 18 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 6447 posts
15th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting :*:CHRiSTiNe:*::</b>" Nope there needs to be some level of physical attraction for me. Its not all about looks by any means but I couldn't be with someone I found repulsive."</blockquote>


TheyCallMeMOMMY♥ 3 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 6825 posts
15th Feb '13

I think yes, I know I thought SO was cute when I first meet him but totally not my type. As time went on I feel in love with his personality and everything else just feel into place. I find him more attractive now after knowing his in's and outs.

GTFOGTFO 6 kids; Italy 5611 posts
15th Feb '13

I've dated guys who I initially found physically unattractive, but have oddly become more attractive to me because of their intelligence or humor.

I dated a SUPER nerd once who I didn't find particularly attractive, but he was so funny and so smart that I always wanted to jump his bones. bahaha.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16901 posts
15th Feb '13

no, my best friend is in love with me, hes the sweetest guy ever, and would do anything for me..he isnt bad looking but im just not attracted to him at all

Caddy ÷ nwark, NJ, United States 9335 posts
15th Feb '13

I voted no, but I guess it all depends...

I find my SO's face VERY handsome. His personality is great and he treats us so well...
his body I don't find attractive... he's pretty overweight....

But his personality and his face are enough for me and I love him very much :lol:

Those are the deal breakers for me, his face has to be at least a little bit cute, I can't stand an ugly face :/ but as long as the face is decent and the personality is great, I can get past a not so perfect body.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
15th Feb '13

I need to be attracted to the person I'm with. When I first met my husband I didn't find him attractive at all. He wasn't the type I had previously dated and actually my college roomie made out with him one night (before we were ever together) and I made fun of her endlessly and called him "beer goggles guy". He isn't ugly by any means but I was use to dating very athletic clean cut guys. He was nerdy and skinny and had tattooed and pericings with a mohawk and beard and was politically active. His intelligence and humor became such a turn on as I got to know him, and he's no longer peirced or has his Mohawk but still tattooed (obviously)and bearded and his personality is exactly the same and I find him to be unbelievably sexy now. I don't think it would matter what he looked like at this point, he's my match.

I actually find men with beards and tattooed to be super sexy now, thanks to him. Haha!

So I voted that no I couldn't be with someone I didn't find attractive, but I think physical attraction is subjective and can be an acquired thing.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
16th Feb '13

f**k no! Call me shallow but if I'm looking at you everyday you better be as pretty as me.

Lol I'm jk!!! Honestly no though, most guys wouldn't dare a girl they weren't attracted to so neither would I. But I don't have ridiculously high standards