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P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11903 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting Take me as I am:" He's still the dad rather you hate him or not, it's his little girl. Get over it smh"

It takes more to being a dad than shooting your load in a chick. Sorry to break it to ya.

Take me as I am 18 kids; Wyoming 1669 posts
17th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" It takes more to being a dad than shooting your load in a chick. Sorry to break it to ya. "</blockquote>




So he or any man (guy) can't miss his child? Interesting, just because this guy may not have a heart for OP does not mean he does not care, shit a damn RO is put on the guy from OP and his daughter. I don't know the story but long story short nothing anyone does, does not mean they can't miss a child, that's stupid

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting Take me as I am:" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" It takes more to being a dad than shooting ... [snip!] ... daughter. I don't know the story but long story short nothing anyone does, does not mean they can't miss a child, that's stupid"

I never said he can't miss her. I said he doesn't deserve to miss her.



And you're right you don't know the story, so how you could comment they way you did, makes no sense. And ya the restraining order was put on him to protect my child and I from him. If he f**king cared enough about us, none of that would have happened... It blows my mind that when he had DD he didn't care but when she's gone he misses her? No, it doesn't work like that. To miss someone you have to care about them, and no f**ks were given about DD those 8 months before court when he voluntarily didn't visit her, those times he told her on the phone he was coming to visit and never showed - breaking her heart, when he dropped off the face of the planet everytime he found someone new to f**k, and when he didn't even bother to show up to court and fight for her. Or what about the time he was awarded temporary supervised visitation, and didn't even go to the interview to set it up? So no, he doesn't deserve to miss her.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11903 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting Take me as I am:" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" It takes more to being a dad than shooting ... [snip!] ... daughter. I don't know the story but long story short nothing anyone does, does not mean they can't miss a child, that's stupid"

And he had from my understanding 3 times to fight the RO but he didn't show up. That is his problem not OPs problem. If you can't fight for your kid then you really don't give a f**k. He doesn't even deserve LO's name to come out of his mouth!

BeginTheRomance Due July 21; 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" It takes more to being a dad than shooting your load in a chick. Sorry to break it to ya. "



Agreed.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" And he had from my understanding 3 times to fight the RO but he didn't show up. That is his problem not ... [snip!] ... If you can't fight for your kid then you really don't give a f**k. He doesn't even deserve LO's name to come out of his mouth! "

That's how I feel!



We had 3 court dates, the first one was for temporary custody and he showed up to that one dressed inappropriately, with his new gf, and had his court papers loosely in a plastic bag - he also didn't do any of his paperwork - and got supervised visitation at a facility. His lawyer said everything I claimed was "historic" and we were given another court date with more paperwork to do. He didn't show up to the second one and didn't do any paperwork. The judge gave him another chance and we got a 3rd court date, he still hadn't done his paperwork or showed up so I got what I was asking for.



Ya, I'm sure "daddy misses his little girl" 2 years later.... :roll:

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11903 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting Rd.:" That's how I feel! We had 3 court dates, the first one was for temporary custody and he showed up to ... [snip!] ... paperwork or showed up so I got what I was asking for. Ya, I'm sure "daddy misses his little girl" 2 years later.... :roll:"

Stupid little boys!