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SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Feb 17th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" i want it done like NOW. ive never agreed with it but sadly its the best choice for my situation right ... [snip!] ... hes upset he will support me but its kinda hard when hes already grieving it. im gonna need counseling after this for sure"</blockquote>




Call your doctor, tell her what's going on and ask if she can help you. The ultrasound should be the least of your worries if you want to done quickly, just do what you have to do.
If your friends can't support you, you can find plenty of support here.

angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 449 posts
Feb 17th '13

i just found out last night af was due tomorrow so depending on when i ovulated im either 3 and 6 or just over 4

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 763 posts
Feb 17th '13

Sorry I am now confused from your back posts less then a month ago it looks like you were actively trying to get pregnant now you want a abortion confused?

angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 449 posts
Feb 17th '13

my situation as drastically changed and is not a good one to bring another child in. this is breaking my heart

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 15106 posts
Feb 17th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mrs.bedell:</b>" Sorry I am now confused from your back posts less then a month ago it looks like you were actively trying to get pregnant now you want a abortion confused?"</blockquote>




It's really none of your business why.

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 763 posts
Feb 17th '13

well did you and the guy break up I am sorry at least for me that is still not a reason to terminate. Just about a week ago you were actively trying to get pregnant and guess what sweetie god answered your prayers. Babies do not always come at the perfect time there is help now a days. An lots of moms do it on there own your broke? I work two jobs now to make sure this second baby who by the way was completely unexpected will be taken care of. I don't want to sound harsh but I feel you are acting very childish about your situation.

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 15106 posts
Feb 17th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" i just found out last night af was due tomorrow so depending on when i ovulated im either 3 and 6 or just over 4"</blockquote>




You should be fine to wait but can you try to contact an abortion clinic? That may be faster, though the one I went to wanted me to pay up front.

Piecey. 4 kids; Worms, RP, Germany 68573 posts
Feb 17th '13

Mrs. Bedell, this really isn't the place for your judgements. Please stop.

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 15106 posts
Feb 17th '13

Way to be a judgmental c**t, bedell.

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 763 posts
Feb 17th '13
Quoting Piecey.:" Mrs. Bedell, this really isn't the place for your judgements. Please stop."


Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting what you want to getting a abortion. I am all down for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from.

angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 449 posts
Feb 17th '13

I wanted it because he did. My heart wasn't fully in it.

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 15106 posts
Feb 17th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mrs.bedell:</b>" Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting ... [snip!] ... for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from."</blockquote>




Doesn't matter. Not your place.

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
Feb 17th '13
Quoting angelica j:" I wanted it because he did. My heart wasn't fully in it."


you don't need to explain yourself to her.

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
Feb 17th '13
Quoting mrs.bedell:" Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting ... [snip!] ... for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from."


you don't need to understand, it's none of your concern.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Feb 17th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mrs.bedell:</b>" Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting ... [snip!] ... for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from."</blockquote>



Why do you need to understand where she is coming from for her abortion to be ok. You don't. It's none of your business and not your life, please leave.