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Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
17th Feb '13

OP, you don't have to look at the u/s if you don't want to....if that's the issue.

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10150 posts
17th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Obvious:</b>" OP, you don't have to look at the u/s if you don't want to....if that's the issue."</blockquote>




I think her issue is having to wait 3 weeks to get one. She wants the abortion quicker than that.

angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 414 posts
17th Feb '13

i want it done like NOW. ive never agreed with it but sadly its the best choice for my situation right now and its really killing me. i just want it over with already. i cant even tell me closest friends because they would loss all respect for me. i feel all alone. i told the dad and though hes upset he will support me but its kinda hard when hes already grieving it. im gonna need counseling after this for sure

pitbullprincess Due June 24 (girl); 65 kids; Fayetteville, North Carolina 1295 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting angelica j:" i want it done like NOW. ive never agreed with it but sadly its the best choice for my situation right ... [snip!] ... hes upset he will support me but its kinda hard when hes already grieving it. im gonna need counseling after this for sure"


Most clinics will give you a session before hand I know if its surgical but I agree at least your being smart about this and taking care of your mental health as well I am sorry momma I wish you were closer I would help you get this done faster the wait must be hell I would try to see if the daddy could take you out of state or whatever you need to do it must be horrible waiting if I may ask how far along are you as the pill may not be an option in three weeks?

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
17th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" i want it done like NOW. ive never agreed with it but sadly its the best choice for my situation right ... [snip!] ... hes upset he will support me but its kinda hard when hes already grieving it. im gonna need counseling after this for sure"</blockquote>




Call your doctor, tell her what's going on and ask if she can help you. The ultrasound should be the least of your worries if you want to done quickly, just do what you have to do.
If your friends can't support you, you can find plenty of support here.

angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 414 posts
17th Feb '13

i just found out last night af was due tomorrow so depending on when i ovulated im either 3 and 6 or just over 4

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 747 posts
17th Feb '13

Sorry I am now confused from your back posts less then a month ago it looks like you were actively trying to get pregnant now you want a abortion confused?

angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 414 posts
17th Feb '13

my situation as drastically changed and is not a good one to bring another child in. this is breaking my heart

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10150 posts
17th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mrs.bedell:</b>" Sorry I am now confused from your back posts less then a month ago it looks like you were actively trying to get pregnant now you want a abortion confused?"</blockquote>




It's really none of your business why.

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 747 posts
17th Feb '13

well did you and the guy break up I am sorry at least for me that is still not a reason to terminate. Just about a week ago you were actively trying to get pregnant and guess what sweetie god answered your prayers. Babies do not always come at the perfect time there is help now a days. An lots of moms do it on there own your broke? I work two jobs now to make sure this second baby who by the way was completely unexpected will be taken care of. I don't want to sound harsh but I feel you are acting very childish about your situation.

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10150 posts
17th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" i just found out last night af was due tomorrow so depending on when i ovulated im either 3 and 6 or just over 4"</blockquote>




You should be fine to wait but can you try to contact an abortion clinic? That may be faster, though the one I went to wanted me to pay up front.

Piecey. 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 61903 posts
17th Feb '13

Mrs. Bedell, this really isn't the place for your judgements. Please stop.

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10150 posts
17th Feb '13

Way to be a judgmental c**t, bedell.

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 747 posts
17th Feb '13
Quoting Piecey.:" Mrs. Bedell, this really isn't the place for your judgements. Please stop."


Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting what you want to getting a abortion. I am all down for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from.

angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 414 posts
17th Feb '13

I wanted it because he did. My heart wasn't fully in it.