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Do you ever Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
18th Feb '13

not comment on somene's thread because you're "scared" that you might say the wrong thing? This seems to happen a lot to me, mostly when women ask about problems with their babies or pregnancy issues, etc.

I don't know why.

It used to never happen to me. I would post what I thought was best to post and then whatever reaction I got, I was okay with it because that's always been me. I've always been outspoken and able to handle whatever reaction comes from that but for some reason, not now.

Uhmm ..

Nicola =) 1 child; Huntsville, Alabama 2783 posts
18th Feb '13

Sometimes I go to post my thoughts and wonder if I am factually correct or not. And then I may not post or I will research the topic so I know the facts.



But if its a post about advice or opinions I do not worry at all what others think. I just post it.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
18th Feb '13

yeah almost constantly. I get to the point where I'm hovering over post reply, before closing the window.

Piecey. Due May 13; 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 65148 posts
status 18th Feb '13

I do. Sometimes I wonder how high my post count would be if I posted everything I started out to.

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61358 posts
18th Feb '13

Yes. I generally figure if I don't know what I want to say, or am not in the mood to select my words carefully, I should just keep my mouth shut. :lol:

BabyMakinMachine. 3 kids; Ohio 634 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Piecey.:" I do. Sometimes I wonder how high my post count would be if I posted everything I started out to."


This.

meggymama Due July 30; 97 kids; United Kingdom 510 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Piecey.:" I do. Sometimes I wonder how high my post count would be if I posted everything I started out to."


This, all the time.
I think though that as long as your intention is good - you dont set out to hurt anyone then its fine.
I havent been here long and im stuggling to get comfy, i was on another forum for years and years and i knew most people so i was more able to just say what i thought IYKWIM?

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
18th Feb '13

I almost always say exactly how I feel. I hold nothing back, lol.