Reply
**** --K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
18th Feb '13

Thanks.
I feel better from talking to strangers about it :D

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
18th Feb '13

Probably lol. That's why people should not do online relationships. Esp after the show catfish came out. Js.



Eta: ESPECIALLY if it's only been a few days.........

user banned 17 kids; Boston, MA, United States 9473 posts
18th Feb '13

if i read that right, you have been texting a chick for 3 days...then talked about a relationship which you didnt want...and now she isnt texting you anymore?




well its been 3 days...dont freak out.
what exactly are you looking for here? how did that talk go down?




sounds like she wanted more than you and you should probably let it go at that. but idk, your post wasnt the clearest.

......................... Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
18th Feb '13

People have lives too. Just because she didn't talk to you for 24 hours doesn't mean she's blowing you off.
Also I read your previous post "Anytime I talk to a friend or someone I'm interested in constantly then don't hear from them for a while (even just hours) I think they don't want anything to do with me anymore :/ ugh." And maybe you shouldn't be so needy because sometimes people will run the opposite why it'll you're to clingy. Just relax, it isn't the end of the world.

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Tiffany ღ:" Probably lol. That's why people should not do online relationships. Esp after the show catfish came out. Js. Eta: ESPECIALLY if it's only been a few days........."

I know her in real life lol.

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Katie♥Hippoand#2:" I know her in real life lol."


Oh, nevermind then :lol:
I would say she's not interested though if you haven't talked to her in a few days

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting cunning cuniculi:" if i read that right, you have been texting a chick for 3 days...then talked about a relationship which ... [snip!] ... down? sounds like she wanted more than you and you should probably let it go at that. but idk, your post wasnt the clearest."


I know I shouldn't freak out i just do no matter who I am talking to.
Even if I've known them for years.



Well in reality I'd love a relationship but I just left my ex two months ago and I'm pregnant so circumstances just aren't right and I'd rather wait. She asked in a unspecified time, not like hey lets date. I said I'd probably say yes but it depends on timing really.

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
18th Feb '13
*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Katie♥Hippoand#2:" Yeah I know. That's why I'm asking you guys instead because I don't want to come off as clingy as I'm ... [snip!] ... as I'm sure I am. I don't have anything else to ponder right now so I just keep wondering if I did come off like that somehow."

How long has it been since she responded?

......................... Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
18th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie♥Hippoand#2:</b>" Yeah I know. That's why I'm asking you guys instead because I don't want to come off as clingy as I'm ... [snip!] ... as I'm sure I am. I don't have anything else to ponder right now so I just keep wondering if I did come off like that somehow."</blockquote>




Anything with a vagina is unpredictable and hard to decipher... Don't stress about it. Pick up a hobby :)

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Tiffany ღ:" How long has it been since she responded? "


Just today pretty much.

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Katie♥Hippoand#2:" Just today pretty much."


Oh wow lol you're a clingy old thing. :lol::lol: She prob just got caught up with something. Don't take it to heart! Also, don't blow up her phone either. Let her respond. Because I know for me that's a huuuuuuuuge turn off.

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie♥Hippoand#2:</b>" Yeah I know. That's why I'm asking ... [snip!] ... Anything with a vagina is unpredictable and hard to decipher... Don't stress about it. Pick up a hobby :)"


luckily I have school tomorrow so I won't have time to stress.



I'm actually upset about a few things not just that and I think its giving me more of a reaction than I normally would have. Well that and the pregnancy hormones I believe.

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Tiffany ღ:" Oh wow lol you're a clingy old thing. :lol::lol: She prob just got caught up with something. Don't ... [snip!] ... take it to heart! Also, don't blow up her phone either. Let her respond. Because I know for me that's a huuuuuuuuge turn off."


lol I know I am, generally I'm not so forthcoming about it but she was putting forth effort so my clingyness forgot its filter. >_<



Trust me I didn't.
I feel like even two texts were too many and I'm not going to send anymore any time soon.

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
18th Feb '13
Quoting Katie♥Hippoand#2:" lol I know I am, generally I'm not so forthcoming about it but she was putting forth effort so my clingyness ... [snip!] ... filter. >_< Trust me I didn't. I feel like even two texts were too many and I'm not going to send anymore any time soon."


Aww. It's understandable though. I hope things work out for you!