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Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15210 posts
status 20th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" I wasn't justifying it I was saying what his excuse for taking the computer was and the reality that his excuse is bullshit because I'm barely on it during the day."</blockquote>




IT DOES NOT MATTER. you can do whatever the f**k you want. He's not your daddy.

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" My mom lives in New Jersey. What money from last ... [snip!] ... make any money last month."</blockquote> You said you were good with money because you make X amount last month."

no i meant i can make x amount last a month because i've done it as a single mom when i had a min wage job. (srry for bad grammar typing with one hand). sorry for the cunfusion.

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" It doesnt matter if you are on it or not. You have the RIGHT to havethe computer. "

you're right! next time he takes it, me and the kids will go stay at my dad's or something.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15210 posts
status 20th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" you're right! next time he takes it, me and the kids will go stay at my dad's or something."</blockquote>




Errrrr



Or how about you leave and get your life back?

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" I wasn't justifying it I was saying what his ... [snip!] ... on it during the day."</blockquote> IT DOES NOT MATTER. you can do whatever the f**k you want. He's not your daddy."


that's true! I guess i understand him with cleaning more but he doesnt understand it'll be on my own time at my own will and if I choose to or not =]

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" you're right! next time he takes it, me and the ... [snip!] ... the kids will go stay at my dad's or something."</blockquote> Errrrr Or how about you leave and get your life back?"


it's not as easy as it sounds I'm sure you know that. It is very scary and gets spread to family members and his are very vocal and nosey.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15210 posts
status 20th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" it's not as easy as it sounds I'm sure you know that. It is very scary and gets spread to family members and his are very vocal and nosey."</blockquote>




It's never easy.



I mean you could always just be controlled and punished for the rest of your life.

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
20th Feb '13

I'm not saying I'm not going to leave I'm saying I need to get some things in order so I can leave.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15210 posts
status 20th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" I'm not saying I'm not going to leave I'm saying I need to get some things in order so I can leave."</blockquote>




But you've made every excuse you can as to why you can't get those things in order.

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
20th Feb '13

Sadly, it's not excuses it's my circumstances when we get tax returns back I should get SOME money since we're getting a nice chunk of money.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15210 posts
status 20th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" Sadly, it's not excuses it's my circumstances when we get tax returns back I should get SOME money since we're getting a nice chunk of money."</blockquote>




Yeah, the financially abusive guy you're planning on leaving is going to give you money to leave him?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" it's not as easy as it sounds I'm sure you know ... [snip!] ... It's never easy. I mean you could always just be controlled and punished for the rest of your life."


This.



I KNOW its hard. But you can do it. Dont leave for the night the next time he does that. LEAVE FOR GOOD.

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
20th Feb '13

we;re getting back close to 9,000 he said hes going to give me 600 out of it all

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15210 posts
status 21st Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" we;re getting back close to 9,000 he said hes going to give me 600 out of it all"</blockquote>




And you think less than 10% is going to be what makes it "easy" for you to leave?



Be financially stable. Take charge of your life.
Stop depending on someone else.
Stop settling for close to nothing.

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
21st Feb '13

I told him we are married and I shouldn't get a part of it it should be shared.