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Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
status 21st Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" I told him we are married and I shouldn't get a part of it it should be shared."</blockquote>




And I'm sure he didn't care.

lucky21409 TTC since Jan 2012; Japan 18 posts
21st Feb '13

You pretty much took the words right out of my mouth, I'm going through the same thing and it hurts so bad! I just have to remember it will get better eventually.

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
21st Feb '13
Quoting lucky21409:" You pretty much took the words right out of my mouth, I'm going through the same thing and it hurts so bad! I just have to remember it will get better eventually."

really what is your responses and reactions to your SO. I don't think mine will eventually get better though only progressively worse.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
status 22nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lucky21409:</b>" You pretty much took the words right out of my mouth, I'm going through the same thing and it hurts so bad! I just have to remember it will get better eventually."</blockquote>




Abusive relationships don't get better. You find the strength to get out of them or you succumb to them. That's it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting lucky21409:</b>" You pretty much took the words right out of ... [snip!] ... Abusive relationships don't get better. You find the strength to get out of them or you succumb to them. That's it."


This.



I didnt leave. I COULDNT leave. He LEFT me that is how I got out.

lucky21409 TTC since Jan 2012; Japan 18 posts
22nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lucky21409:</b>" You pretty much took the words right out of ... [snip!] ... Abusive relationships don't get better. You find the strength to get out of them or you succumb to them. That's it."</blockquote>



Not the abusive part, her first part of the story, can't relate with the rest though

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
status 22nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" This. I didnt leave. I COULDNT leave. He LEFT me that is how I got out. "</blockquote>




Lucky.



(As terrible as that sounds)

CNA1990 New Jersey 374 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting lucky21409:" You pretty much took the words right out of my mouth, I'm going through the same thing and it hurts so bad! I just have to remember it will get better eventually."

Yeah, it has gotten better and I don't dwell on it everyday or evern every week but when I do go back to that day, I think about it on and off for a day or two and grieve pretty bad and feel like shit.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" This. I didnt leave. I COULDNT ... [snip!] ... didnt leave. I COULDNT leave. He LEFT me that is how I got out. "</blockquote> Lucky. (As terrible as that sounds)"


Seriously. I wouldnt have it any other way. He ruined everything for me when I tried to leave and the times that I stayed gone for a while.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
status 23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" Seriously. I wouldnt have it any other way. He ruined everything for me when I tried to leave and the times that I stayed gone for a while. "</blockquote>




There's never an easy way out. But any way out is the best way out.