Not so much bad but stupidly heartless
"When you smile, you get a roll under your chin"
I toss a book at him.
Quoting Novelidea:" That must've been really hurtful and I would've been really pissed if DH said something like that...but I laughed. Like wtf? Who thinks of shit like that?"
Haha... good, you made me feel better about laughing, too.
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" We were having a fight, I was pregnant with DD2 and we separated because I was getting too mad and needed ... [snip!] ... younger." I was heartbroken, and felt betrayed and alot of other things. I couldn't believe he would even say that to me. "
Wow. What a horrible thing to say. That would've taken me a very long time to even begin to get over. I'm sorry.
Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" Haha... good, you made me feel better about laughing, too. "
Oh and DH knows better than to mention being like my mother. What's terrible is it makes me rage, just like my mother.
Quoting Just Emily :):" I was 9 months pregnant and I made a recipe my aunt gave me. It came out wrong and I was crying and DH ... [snip!] ... I cried. Then left it on the stove for two days crying everytime I saw it and yelling at DH if he tried to throw it away"
Quoting Novelidea:" Right? Oh and DH knows better than to mention being like my mother. What's terrible is it makes me rage, just like my mother."
It's the worst ever because you know that they are right, and you ARE acting like your mother.... sigh. Lol.
I was in the middle of a miscarriage the end of July '12 when he was discharged from the air force and we were literally being kicked out of out home in 3days. I couldn't stop crying. I turned my back to him to pack some things and he said something like "God, crying again?! ". I wasn't but that comment sure made me. I still haven't forgiven him for any of it.
That I ruined our lives by kicking him out when LO was little.
I made a joke about being like Al Roker in front of some friends... and DH said "fat al roker orrrr....." ... he totally called me FAT AL ROKER! Fucking fucker.
Quoting Novelidea:" Wow. What a horrible thing to say. That would've taken me a very long time to even begin to get over. I'm sorry."
It took me a long time to forgive him for those words. My mother was so pissed too, she sat him down to talk to him and had a very, very long talk. It took me years to come out about everything that's happened, and I confided in him just for him to throw that at me like that. We were at a very dark time in our marriage at that point, and he has never said anything like that ever again. And even though I've forgiven him and we are in a better place, I won't ever forget those words.
Lmfao! Well after I walked away I hid in the laundry room & was confused on whether or not I was going to laugh or cry. I felt like he called me retarded! I did laugh a bit because I could not for the life of me figure out how the hell someone thinks of something like that. I do find it funny now but it was a bit hurtful
"I can tell you're on the rag again..." Stupid men always say this when they're trying to avoid owning up to their own bullshit.
Quoting CRSx2Mommy:" I made a joke about being like Al Roker in front of some friends... and DH said "fat al roker orrrr....." ... he totally called me FAT AL ROKER! Fucking fucker. "
One night when DD was just a few weeks old, I wanted him to bring me the baby for me to nurse her he did this stupid thing of flapping his hands to his chest to indicate he had no boobs to feed her. I said all I wanted was you to bring her here, I'll do the rest. He looked at me and said 'I wish we had went with formula.' I looked at him in shock a second before bawling. He apologized first thing the next morning.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" It's the worst ever because you know that they are right, and you ARE acting like your mother.... sigh. Lol. "</blockquote>
Haha yes! My mother is always acting like a bitch so me being mad means I must be acting like her