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Relationship with moms BooBoo's Mommy♥ 1 child; WESTOVER, Maryland 933 posts
19th Feb '13

Just wondering How your relationships with your moms are? I used to be really close with my mom until she completely left her family for a man : (

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
19th Feb '13

It could be better. But we were close before I got pregnant with my youngest.

BooBoo's Mommy♥ 1 child; WESTOVER, Maryland 933 posts
19th Feb '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" It could be better. But we were close before I got pregnant with my youngest. "

What made it different?

Novelidea 2 kids; Louisiana 1217 posts
19th Feb '13

We're good as long I as just take her as she is. I know what to to expect from her, and I know in what ways I shouldn't count on her. Makes it simple and disappointment free.

1 child; Chicopee, MA, United States 30921 posts
19th Feb '13

we used to be super close.. i mean were close now, just not as. i wish our relationship was better and like it used to be

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15768 posts
status 19th Feb '13

My mother had me when she was 16. She has been more like a sister to me than a mother. If we are living together longer than a week, we get on each other's nerves. I don't speak to her often, and consider my grandmother to be more like my mother.

The New Mrs. 2 kids; Lima, OH, United States 1301 posts
19th Feb '13

My mom is seriously my best and only friend.
I call her every morning as soon as I'm up.. and the kids are all settled.
I see her at least 3-4 times a week.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
19th Feb '13

I thought it was good until last weekend. She stayed over for the weekend and out of no where informed me that she thinks she failed in raising me because I don't go to church, my children aren't and won't be baptized and I am staunchly prochoice.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
19th Feb '13
Quoting BooBoo's Mommy♥:" What made it different?"


She was mad that I didnt get an abortion. She was mad that I chose adoption. She doesnt understand the loss I feel.



ETA: I could go on about it.

BooBoo's Mommy♥ 1 child; WESTOVER, Maryland 933 posts
19th Feb '13

I wish things could be different because I really miss her but I need to be strong for my son. She was using me for drug money when I tried to have a relationship with her after she left my stepdad

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
19th Feb '13
Quoting BooBoo's Mommy♥:" I wish things could be different because I really miss her but I need to be strong for my son. She was using me for drug money when I tried to have a relationship with her after she left my stepdad"


Dont beat yourself up. I cut my dad out of my life for his selfishness also. you can only change yourself and not anyone else.

ℐαzmчn 2 kids; Somerset, Kentucky 12712 posts
19th Feb '13

I have an awesome relationship with my mom. The only time we ever got into it was about my wedding haha and when I was 13 I told her I hated her boyfriend and she was mad at me for a while lol. Other than that we don't really any issues. Although we have our days where we just irritate each other (we're both really stubborn and a lot alike and we both think we're always right) and we ignore each other lol. But that was back when I was living with her.



I would say it's like any other mother daughter relationship but I know they're always not the same.

♥MamaToSilas♥ 1 child; Illinois 9278 posts
status 19th Feb '13

Everyone thinks me and my mom are close but were not. My brother and her are extremely close. Me and her butt heads a lot. I live with her right now till I can get money saved but we rarely ever speak on a personal level.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
19th Feb '13

We are really close. We talk every day on the phone for at least half an hour and she was the first person other than SO that I told I was pregnant.

Cordelia's Mom 33 kids; Bakersfield, California 3685 posts
19th Feb '13

We've never been close. My relationship with my dad is like 100 x's better.