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The whole thing is like....are you 12? For real. Just forget it.
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" The whole thing is like....are you 12? For real. Just forget it. "
Um...yeah, that's pretty childish. He's with you (I'm assuming from the way you talk about him) so who cares what he did in the past?
Yes that would be childish of you. Extremely.
He's been faithful to you while you're together so why would you care who he's been with in the passed??
Ya, I think it would a little immature. If you guys have been together 'some years'...then you should have enough trust in each other to talk to who ever, when ever you want!
If he's been faithful, what does it matter what he did before you? That's his past. He didn't even have to tell you who it was but he did, even if he did lie about it first.
But yes, it's very childish of you.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" The whole thing is like....are you 12? For real. Just forget it. "</blockquote>
<blockquote><b>Quoting Rebecca Brown*:</b>" Well it was my personal feelings, virginity was a big thing to me."</blockquote>
It's really not a big deal. At all. He's with you and has been faithful, this doesn't effect you or your relationship at all. Just let it go.
I'm trying my hardest not to tell you to grow up.
Don't let it bother you. And I don't get chummy with any of DH's ex's or past lays so no that wouldn't be childish lol. I'm not interested in being friends with women who've been intimate with DH before me. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't punish him for it. Obviously he cares a lot for you if he saw how much it bothered you and backtracked.
yep i think it's something you should just let go of.
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" But seriously it does come down to this. Who gives a f**k who he lost his virginity to? I couldn't even tell you who my husband lost it to, because who cares? "
And that's the difference between you and me, it's not something you care for so you couldn't possible know what my feelings were on the whole topic.