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Gone AaliyahVal'sMommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cleveland, Ohio 1364 posts
20th Feb '13

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user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
20th Feb '13

The whole thing is like....are you 12? For real. Just forget it.

AaliyahVal'sMommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cleveland, Ohio 1364 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" The whole thing is like....are you 12? For real. Just forget it. "
Bogey Woman 2 kids; Fort Irwin, California 1892 posts
20th Feb '13

Um...yeah, that's pretty childish. He's with you (I'm assuming from the way you talk about him) so who cares what he did in the past?

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
20th Feb '13

Yes that would be childish of you. Extremely.
He's been faithful to you while you're together so why would you care who he's been with in the passed??

user banned SAN FRANCISCO, CA, United States 24574 posts
20th Feb '13

Ya, I think it would a little immature. If you guys have been together 'some years'...then you should have enough trust in each other to talk to who ever, when ever you want!

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20215 posts
status 20th Feb '13

If he's been faithful, what does it matter what he did before you? That's his past. He didn't even have to tell you who it was but he did, even if he did lie about it first.



But yes, it's very childish of you.

::Nikki:: 1 child; Arkansas 2624 posts
20th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" The whole thing is like....are you 12? For real. Just forget it. "</blockquote>




Exactly

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
20th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rebecca Brown*:</b>" Well it was my personal feelings, virginity was a big thing to me."</blockquote>



It's really not a big deal. At all. He's with you and has been faithful, this doesn't effect you or your relationship at all. Just let it go.



I'm trying my hardest not to tell you to grow up.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
20th Feb '13

Don't let it bother you. And I don't get chummy with any of DH's ex's or past lays so no that wouldn't be childish lol. I'm not interested in being friends with women who've been intimate with DH before me. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't punish him for it. Obviously he cares a lot for you if he saw how much it bothered you and backtracked.

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy 3 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30128 posts
20th Feb '13

yep i think it's something you should just let go of.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting SavageDarling
AaliyahVal'sMommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cleveland, Ohio 1364 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting SavageDarling
AaliyahVal'sMommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cleveland, Ohio 1364 posts
20th Feb '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" But seriously it does come down to this. Who gives a f**k who he lost his virginity to? I couldn't even tell you who my husband lost it to, because who cares? "

And that's the difference between you and me, it's not something you care for so you couldn't possible know what my feelings were on the whole topic.

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13923 posts
20th Feb '13

My husband in all our years has never ONCE asked me who I lost my virginity too. None of his damn business what I did before him and I dated. :?