Quoting Rebecca Brown*:" Yeah I guess that's all true. and he really made me think that when he said i should trust him over her, ... [snip!] ... i don't need to do that and saying it was good thing that happend cause thats when he learned you couldnt love girls like her."
I guess, i'm still thinking with my young "fantasy" mind instead of my Adult mind that i should be using, but i feel me telling him that i don't feel i should have any ill feelings towards her is a sign of me growing into it, i did after all tell him i didn't feel i should be able to tell him he couldnt hang with her when he asked, but when i asked his thoughts he couldn't really give me an answer he said. He said if i said i didn't want him too, he could understand, but when i told him i didn't feel it was fair he told me to really think if it would bother me, becasue he would test it out by going to hang with her if i told him he could.
Quoting *A&N's Mama*:" Uhh I wouldn't be ok with DH hanging around with a woman he's slept with. I don't think it's immature ... [snip!] ... enough to not hang out with her. I'm sorry I'm not one if those types of women who are ok with that kind of thing either lol "
Lol okay so you can relate with me a little on this situation lol.
But, i'm not really feeling like that anymore. Like i actually feel it would be wrong of me to ask him that.
I think it would bother me if he had feelings for her and such, he said he didn't and the way he told me the story of eveything that went down, he wasn't all into it anyway, he said it just didn't feel right to him and he stopped it.
So I have another concern, if anyone is still reading...
I told him he could tal to her and she said he wanted nothin to do with her, and he has said things about her messaging him on facebook talking about she wants to smoe with him, but i've seen the messages and its him messaging her first,
Why does he feel he has to lie about it, if he wants to tell me at all.