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user banned SAN FRANCISCO, CA, United States 24574 posts
22nd Feb '13

You definitely need to communicate this to him...maybe see about talking to the chaplain or see what is offered through his branch's community services. Also, every post has marriage retreats throughout the year...they're usually free or little cost and always some nice hotel/resort/etc.

kitermom 2 kids; Beaverton, Oregon 740 posts
22nd Feb '13

Why don't you go be active. Maybe then he'll follow suit.

Brandi Milam (girl); 3 angel babies; Tucson, Arizona 574 posts
23rd Feb '13

IK like the idea of a date jar. Putting random ideas in it and choosing. Something else you could do is blind-fold him and get him in the car and take him somewhere. Since you have all day at home to come up with ideas while taking care of the house that is deff something you could do.

Brandi Milam (girl); 3 angel babies; Tucson, Arizona 574 posts
23rd Feb '13

IK like the idea of a date jar. Putting random ideas in it and choosing. Something else you could do is blind-fold him and get him in the car and take him somewhere. Since you have all day at home to come up with ideas while taking care of the house that is deff something you could do.