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Straight but have a crush on a female! Gina_Maire 33 kids; New York, NY, United States 739 posts
22nd Feb '13

So i never been with a female before and i consider myself straight but i have a huge crush on a friend!(she is lesbian) i never felt like this before for a woman. i want her soo bad! i made the first move to kiss her and we just started making out! lately i just cant keep my hands off of her! so now i'm nervous to take it to the next step. i'm afraid i'm going to suck lmao :/ when sleeping with a girl for the first time, how was it for you ladies?

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
22nd Feb '13

Well, I mean...do you *think* you could have a relationship with a woman, or is this just a phase thing? Because if it's just a phase it would be terrible to go that far and possibly have her gain feelings for you, then you realize that you're really not lesbian/bisexual etc.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
22nd Feb '13

If you want to be with her... you aren't straight, girlfriend. Hey, if she's gay, go for it. Tell her how you feel.

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
22nd Feb '13

nerve racking, but once you get into it, it's really good.
With her being a lesbian she'll probably lead anyway, knowing you're a newb to it.

Gina_Maire 33 kids; New York, NY, United States 739 posts
22nd Feb '13

I really like her, like a lot! i would love to have a relationship with her

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15418 posts
22nd Feb '13

So... is it just a sexual thing, or do you think you could/have develop feelings for her? I think it's something to think about hard before going further. Because if it's just sex, a friend might not be the best option, she might develop different feelings and that could get awkward.

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting Sunshine..:" I really like her, like a lot! i would love to have a relationship with her"

Well then you're not straight :) Lol.
I say go for it. If she's sending hints that she likes you too, why not?

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
22nd Feb '13

I wouldn't have a clue what to do with a vagina lol. I know I have one... but wouldn't want to try to get one off. I feel bad for men. At least they're easy to get off.

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting Sunshine..:" So i never been with a female before and i consider myself straight but i have a huge crush on a friend!(she ... [snip!] ... the next step. i'm afraid i'm going to suck lmao :/ when sleeping with a girl for the first time, how was it for you ladies? "


First time sex with a girl is way easier than first time sex with a guy lol. Girls know what girls like, so.. just imagine what you'd like.. :wink:

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" So... is it just a sexual thing, or do you think you could/have develop feelings for her? I think it's ... [snip!] ... if it's just sex, a friend might not be the best option, she might develop different feelings and that could get awkward."


lesbians are actually really good at keeping friendships with their exes/girls they've previously had sex with... well, all the ones I've met were still friends with all the girls they had been involved with.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21131 posts
status 22nd Feb '13
Quoting snglemama:" I wouldn't have a clue what to do with a vagina lol. I know I have one... but wouldn't want to try to get one off. I feel bad for men. At least they're easy to get off."


Oh me either! I'd be so lost.

Gina_Maire 33 kids; New York, NY, United States 739 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting snglemama:" I wouldn't have a clue what to do with a vagina lol. I know I have one... but wouldn't want to try to get one off. I feel bad for men. At least they're easy to get off."



This is why i'm scared! lol plus she is 15 years older than me so she has way more experience! dude imma suck so bad! lmao

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting Amber :]:" lesbians are actually really good at keeping friendships with their exes/girls they've previously had ... [snip!] ... previously had sex with... well, all the ones I've met were still friends with all the girls they had been involved with."

Not with my sister. All of her exes are gone and out of her life but they were all b***hes.

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting Sunshine..:" This is why i'm scared! lol plus she is 15 years older than me so she has way more experience! dude imma suck so bad! lmao"

Watch some porn, lol.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15418 posts
22nd Feb '13
Quoting Amber :]:" lesbians are actually really good at keeping friendships with their exes/girls they've previously had ... [snip!] ... previously had sex with... well, all the ones I've met were still friends with all the girls they had been involved with."

Well this is good to know. I just know that when friendships turn into something more they can really be tricky sometimes, so you need to really think about where it could go.



As for the actual act OP, think about what you like and pretty much do that lol. I'm sure she will guide you.