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Cast Your Vote:

    • Multiple times a day -- Votes: 21
    • Once a day -- Votes: 19
    • Few times a week -- Votes: 22
    • Few times a month -- Votes: 21
    • Every couple months -- Votes: 5
    • Few times a year -- Votes: 3
    • never ever ever :( -- Votes: 4
Roo & Sophie's mama 2 kids; Denton, Texas 9318 posts
23rd Feb '13

I generally want it 3-4 times a week but DH works 3pm-11pm so I rarely have the energy by the time he gets home >.<

Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting j0des(+2):" Ever since my second son, I dont have the urge at all. Im too tired. Im exhausted all the time..honestly ... [snip!] ... the thought rarely crosses my mind. My poor husband :lol: Im sure it wouldnt be so bad if he were more romantic.."


Never, never, never, ever! - seriously!



Im the same as the person who im quoting.
But add PPD and hormonal B/C to the mix & my sex drive is totally non existent.



If the DR said 'im sorry but you can never have any form of sexual contact again, we are going to sew your vagina shut also' i'd be totally fine with it hahahaha!!!! :lol:

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
23rd Feb '13

I hardly ever want it. Ever since I started taking Zoloft, I have almost no sex drive. I still kind of "want" it, but I think I want the closeness and intimacy of it more, because I'm not turned on.

Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" I hardly ever want it. Ever since I started taking Zoloft, I have almost no sex drive. I still kind of "want" it, but I think I want the closeness and intimacy of it more, because I'm not turned on."


Im on prozac & feel the same!



I like for DH to spoon me & i'll fall asleep while we snuggle... anything more then that and im not in the mood at all.



Its hard for me to get into that frame of mind nowadays.



Its so weird... DH said i use to be a nympho before and sexed him out.. he was the one not wanting anymore because he'd got so much. (daily.. or multipul times a day)



Now im the one not wanting it & DH really has to try to get me to give in.



Sheesh... i dont even remember the last time we did anything sexual :shock:



Im only 21 as well which makes me feel weird... i should want to spend time with my hubby intimately.



I wish i had a sex drive.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Ecstasy:" Im on prozac & feel the same! I like for DH to spoon me & i'll fall asleep while we snuggle... ... [snip!] ... only 21 as well which makes me feel weird... i should want to spend time with my hubby intimately. I wish i had a sex drive."



I'm on a bunch of psych meds and still want it multiple times a day. Before I was on Prozac, I was even worse lol



Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" I'm on a bunch of psych meds and still want it multiple times a day. Before I was on Prozac, I was even worse lol "


Jealous!



I cant pin point what it is.



I spoke to the DR and we arent sure if its the PPD, hormonal B/C or prozac.



I realllllly wish i had a sex drive.. i just cant even be bothered to be honest :oops: i'd rather vacuum or clean the bathroom then have sex.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
23rd Feb '13

Never... Just never. My psoriasis causes open wounds around my genitals that ooze and bleed from the smallest amount of friction. And even when its not bad, I find sex far to violating (I dont like being touched). I have never come from penetration (even alone), and I find the whole act of sex to distracting to get off with other stimulation.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Destiel:" Never... Just never. My psoriasis causes open wounds around my genitals that ooze and bleed from the ... [snip!] ... never come from penetration (even alone), and I find the whole act of sex to distracting to get off with other stimulation."


Sorry hun. I know how hard it is for you. :(



Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Ecstasy:" Jealous! I cant pin point what it is. I spoke to the DR and we arent sure if its the PPD, hormonal ... [snip!] ... i had a sex drive.. i just cant even be bothered to be honest :oops: i'd rather vacuum or clean the bathroom then have sex. "



Before I was on the meds, I was a certified sex machine. Multiple times a day with pretty much anyone who showed interest.

I have a bit more restraint these days (mostly cause I always have Cora with me) but I still want it alot

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
23rd Feb '13

I think about sex like...75% of the day, lol, so I want it a few times a day. I get all frisky with SO and he's always down. I used to never want sex.

j0des(+2) 18 kids; Virginia 5095 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ecstasy:</b>" Jealous! I cant pin point what it is. I spoke to the DR and we arent sure if its the PPD, hormonal ... [snip!] ... i had a sex drive.. i just cant even be bothered to be honest :oops: i'd rather vacuum or clean the bathroom then have sex. "</blockquote>




Id rather clean than have sex too lol sex isnt going to get my chores done before morning..if I skip a chore then Im overwhelmed the next day and I feel like Im not paying enough attention to the kids and their needs. I will skip a chore for the kids but not for sex.



Plus, having a kid on either side of us during the act makes me like :shock: just no. :lol:



I dont have PPD, my sex drive just left. I hope it comes back someday. My husband is super crabby.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Rydicule91:" I think about sex like...75% of the day, lol, so I want it a few times a day. I get all frisky with SO and he's always down. I used to never want sex."


Thats how I am. And I'm single so it means I blow through a LOT of batteries

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" Thats how I am. And I'm single so it means I blow through a LOT of batteries"


buahahaha!! I remember those days before SO...I should just throw mine away, SO knows what to do

HappinessInMisery 3 kids; Ohio 30396 posts
23rd Feb '13

Every single day. I get moody and stressed if we dont have sex. Thank god he is the same way. We have sex at least 7-10 times a week. Even the week of my period. If we miss a day we end up getting it on twice the next day because we both love sex. I do not masturbate. Cpuld never get myself off

user banned California 36390 posts
23rd Feb '13

I would love to have sex every day, multiple times. But I think it's more of a fetish than anything.