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My life has taken a 360 Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

I'm new as of today. This is the first topic. I'm 17 will be 18 in May. i graduate June 1. I'm very mature with a lot of wisdom. The guy I'm pregnant by is in the military. We were never a couple. He asked me out a couple of times. I didn't wanna rush into a rs. Neither did I want to be pregnant my last yr in hs. I'm only 4-5 weeks right now. I told him the first day when I took the test. He begged me to get an abortion. Because he already have a child. He's not ready for another one. & so on. I was not a sexual active teen. I lost my virginity over a year ago my Jr year with my first love. We only did it once. Now over a yr later. This guy gets me pregnant and wants to be a dead beat. I told him he needs to step up and take responsibility for his actions. its easy to make em. But you can't take care of what comes afterwards. He told me he wanna be with me maybe we can get married and start a family in the future. Just please dont have this child. He gets angry when I say NO! God has blessed me with this child .it is very emotional for me right now. I'm going through so much & on top of that my family doesn't even know. I'm scared to tell them. They are ultra strict. I'm making a doc appt next week and I'm planning on buying a card and write some things in it & leave it on my moms pillow before school. & sending my dads and step moms in the mail. What do you guys think about that? Bad or good idea?? I'm sooo scared. He told me he's not going to tell his mama because she don't need to know. It's none of her business. Smh its so un fair if you ask me because its her grandchild. He say I'm making things hard by keeping it. But I mean Its hard for me because I'm supposed to be signing up into the navy or airforce. Going to college and major in psychology. Smh Im still going to follow my dreams. I say if YOU WANT YOUR BABY! KEEP IT. BECAUSE ONCE IT'S GONE! IT'S GONE IN THEY EYES. WE ARE THE ONES DEALING WITH THE MENTAL DAMAGE & IT WHAT DOES TO YOUR BODY ON THE INSIDE! & WHO'S TO SAY THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO GET PREGNANT AGAIN!? I wish the best for you my love. Sorry its long. Hope you ladies read it. Tell me your thoughts. I need them.

Gemmas mommy! 1 child; Deposit, New York 1893 posts
23rd Feb '13

Welcome to BG. Good luck, maybe you should tell them in person that's the more responsible ad mature thing to do but what ever works at least your going to tell them. Also you can't force someone to be a parent if he doesn't want to be involved don't try to make him it won't work and you and your baby will probably be better off with out him.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103126 posts
23rd Feb '13

Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion they can have one. I know plenty of people who have had one and still gotten pregnant. That shit is a lie.



PS, it's a 180. If you do a 360 you make a full circle, back where you started

Gemmas mommy! 1 child; Deposit, New York 1893 posts
23rd Feb '13

Oh and congrats!

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gemmas mommy!:</b>" Welcome to BG. Good luck, maybe you should tell them in person that's the more responsible ad mature ... [snip!] ... doesn't want to be involved don't try to make him it won't work and you and your baby will probably be better off with out him."</blockquote>



Thanks. And okay. Telling her in person was my first choice. I just don't want her to hit me and hurt my baby. Oh & by any means I'm not forcing him. I told him I'm going to take care of it regardless. He said he will be around. He just don't want it. Sooo we will see. Thanks.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7010 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion they can have one. I know plenty of people who have had one ... [snip!] ... and still gotten pregnant. That shit is a lie. PS, it's a 180. If you do a 360 you make a full circle, back where you started"</blockquote>




! Lmao agree with this.

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion they can have one. I know plenty of people who have had one ... [snip!] ... and still gotten pregnant. That shit is a lie. PS, it's a 180. If you do a 360 you make a full circle, back where you started"</blockquote>




Gtfo off my post with the disrespectful stupid Shit. 1st post & I already got someone with an ugly picture & ugly attitude. IDC WHO YOU KNOW THAT HAS HAD AN ABORTION & STILL HAVING KIDS. ALL I'M SAYING IS I'M NOT DOING IT! & stupid b***h. It can mess your insides up. Doesn't mean 100% off the time idiot. & I will be back where I started . Back on my successful journey of happiness :) have a nice one!

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Glo♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion ... [snip!] ... PS, it's a 180. If you do a 360 you make a full circle, back where you started"</blockquote> ! Lmao agree with this."</blockquote>




& what I just told her goes for you or anyone else with stupid mean stuff to say!

JΔS Georgia 70884 posts
23rd Feb '13

Lol it's 180, not 360. Did you not pay attention in your geometry class little girl?

JΔS Georgia 70884 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aaliyah Des'rae:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion ... [snip!] ... mean 100% off the time idiot. & I will be back where I started . Back on my successful journey of happiness :) have a nice one!"</blockquote>




Didn't you just finish saying you were mature? :lol:



Kids...

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7010 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aaliyah Des'rae:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion ... [snip!] ... mean 100% off the time idiot. & I will be back where I started . Back on my successful journey of happiness :) have a nice one!"</blockquote>




And you are mature?!?! Lmao. Little girl you have a lot to learn.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103126 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aaliyah Des'rae:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion ... [snip!] ... mean 100% off the time idiot. & I will be back where I started . Back on my successful journey of happiness :) have a nice one!"</blockquote>




Lmfao. I can't even. Omfg.



Supah mature

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" Lol it's 180, not 360. Did you not pay attention in your geometry class little girl?"</blockquote>




Right. kids :) they need to grow up. & idk I dont think I did!

JΔS Georgia 70884 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aaliyah Des'rae:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" Lol it's 180, not 360. Did you not ... [snip!] ... in your geometry class little girl?"</blockquote> Right. kids :) they need to grow up. & idk I dont think I did!"</blockquote>



Obviously
Well good luck with everything. Concentrate on your education and providing for your baby. Stop trying to force this guy to be a parent.

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
23rd Feb '13

1st off, you need to get your facts straight about abortion. 2nd of all, no one can make you have one. 3rd, you need to tell your parents ASAP.



How do you intend on taking care of your child?
Because, your parents may not want to support you. AND your child's father doesn't want to be involved.



Good luck sweetie....you're gonna need it.