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lovinthem04 Due June 26 (boy); 19 kids; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri 1999 posts
23rd Feb '13

If he is military, you need to contact his COC so he has to pay child support. Other wise, good luck!

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

Its okay everyone! With all these mean post. I didn't join this website to bullied or talked down on. Being called names or anything else negative. I actually felt comfortable about this website & thought I could have nice women to talk to. My feelings are actually hurt. Cause I would never say this kind of stuff to anyone. Thanks to the people who actually wernt mean it a** wholes! Ps: didn't say I was gonna make him
Take care of it. He said he doesn't want it but he is going.to be around. & I have a job .

Mother of One plus One 2 kids; Ware Shoals, South Carolina 4418 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion they can have one. I know plenty of people who have had one ... [snip!] ... and still gotten pregnant. That shit is a lie. PS, it's a 180. If you do a 360 you make a full circle, back where you started"</blockquote>




Who pissed in your corn flakes this morning? Damn,every one is being such asses.



She doesn't want an abortion. Why would any of you try to force your beliefe that she should or guilt her into believing she should.




OP. Work hard for your self and your child. That is all you can do.

JΔS Georgia 73220 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aaliyah Des'rae:</b>" Its okay everyone! With all these mean post. I didn't join this website to bullied or talked down on. ... [snip!] ... Ps: didn't say I was gonna make him Take care of it. He said he doesn't want it but he is going.to be around. & I have a job ."</blockquote>




No one was "mean" to you but you're spewing incorrect information so you got corrected. You're about to be a teen mom so you're going to have to grow some thicker skin and stop being so sensitive. Stop whining.

JΔS Georgia 73220 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of One plus One:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion ... [snip!] ... that she should or guilt her into believing she should. OP. Work hard for your self and your child. That is all you can do."</blockquote>




Lol did you not read the full OP?

MommaAngel Due April 5; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Killeen, TX, United States 145 posts
23rd Feb '13

well first off welcome to BG! and congrats on ur baby! you need to finish school first of all which im pretty sure you where going to since you graduate in june. and tell your parents they may not be happy about it at first but they`ll get over it. no one can force you to get an abortion not even your parents (not saying that they will) even at 18 you can still be a great mom. as long as you better your education and support your baby on your own and love and care for you baby you`ll be fine. its gonna be tough but you`ll get through it. as for the father if he doesnt want to step up and be a man and take care of his child then it only proves what kind of man he really is. good luck momma!

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103331 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of One plus One:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion ... [snip!] ... that she should or guilt her into believing she should. OP. Work hard for your self and your child. That is all you can do."</blockquote>




Who the hell is forcing her? I didn't say anything g about her getting one. She said incorrect info, I corrected it.

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of One plus One:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Shut u dude. If someone wants an abortion ... [snip!] ... that she should or guilt her into believing she should. OP. Work hard for your self and your child. That is all you can do."</blockquote>




Right! It's better ways to say things. & I did read that abortions can sometimes mess you up. Thanks. I'm just going through a lot. Last night i only got 2 hours of sleep. And had night mares back to back. I didn't wanna have to go through this today. Ya know? I know its gonna be hard. But I know can do it. & I will work hard. Very hard.

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting MamaMiguez:" well first off welcome to BG! and congrats on ur baby! you need to finish school first of all which ... [snip!] ... want to step up and be a man and take care of his child then it only proves what kind of man he really is. good luck momma!"


He's a man who knows it's not a good time or place to bring a child into the mix. It makes no sense that a woman can make a decision to not be a mother and that's all fine and dandy, but if a guy doesn't want to be a father he's a dead beat? Okay, that makes sense.
OP, do you know the stats on girls who have babies at your age? Not good. You will not be able to just "follow your dreams". You will be giving up everything.

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MamaMiguez:</b>" well first off welcome to BG! and congrats on ur baby! you need to finish school first of all which ... [snip!] ... want to step up and be a man and take care of his child then it only proves what kind of man he really is. good luck momma!"</blockquote>




Thanks! & yes i have all A's & B's right now. I'm doing well. I passed all my state test. Just waiting for these 40 sumn days to pass. & I'm planning on telling them. Right. I'm praying he will but I won't beg. I'll just Do what has to be done. & thanks for the positive encouraging words .

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103331 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyToWesley:</b>" He's a man who knows it's not a good time or place to bring a child into the mix. It makes no sense ... [snip!] ... who have babies at your age? Not good. You will not be able to just "follow your dreams". You will be giving up everything."</blockquote>




Right? I never got that. The guy isn't ready for a child, voices his opinion, and then becomes a deadbeat. Or he's forced to take care of a child he doesn't want. Catch 22.

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4344 posts
23rd Feb '13

Getting an abortion is a personal choice. No one can force you into it. I think you should tell your family in person. They may be upset, but if you say you are mature/responsible then that is the mature/responsible thing to do. As for the BD, he may be trying to keep this a secret because you are a minor & doesn't want to get in trouble. I know you are age of consent, but if your parents want to press charges since he is older I *think* they still can because you aren't 18. But don't quote me on that one, idk for sure. Also, getting an abortion doesn't prevent you from having children in the future. Anyways, congratulations! Good luck on telling your family & hopefully things work out with BD.

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyToWesley:</b>" He's a man who knows it's not a good time or place to bring a child into the mix. It makes no sense ... [snip!] ... who have babies at your age? Not good. You will not be able to just "follow your dreams". You will be giving up everything."</blockquote>




I understand why he wants too! But I cant do it. Anyways. Everyone doesn't have to fail in life by being a teen mom. I will do what I have to do. That's all.

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Aaliyah Des'rae:" ... But I cant do it. Anyways. Everyone doesn't have to fail in life by being a teen mom. I will do what I have to do. That's all."


That's what every teen mom says.

Aaliyah Des'rae Due October 25; Columbus, Georgia 60 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ mommy & colton:</b>" Getting an abortion is a personal choice. No one can force you into it. I think you should tell your ... [snip!] ... having children in the future. Anyways, congratulations! Good luck on telling your family & hopefully things work out with BD."</blockquote>




Thanks & I think he will tell her when he is ready.I just think he scaredn rgr the state of ga at 17 you can date any age. That's what a police told me. Soooo I guess so. & yeah hopefully things will work out.