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Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:</b>" I think I'll tell her if she doesn't stop the things she's doing she won't see her grandchild, because last time I told her... Nothing was at stake; It was just words I guess."</blockquote>




Her grandchild? Do you have a child with her son or are you calling this baby her grandchild?

Jenna1234 1 child; Iowa 509 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:</b>" I think I'll tell her if she doesn't ... [snip!] ... I guess."</blockquote> Her grandchild? Do you have a child with her son or are you calling this baby her grandchild?"</blockquote>




Sounds like she has one child previously from when she was with her son and the LO she is pregnant with now is from someone else that she is currently dating.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna1234:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Preggo Bear ... [snip!] ... from when she was with her son and the LO she is pregnant with now is from someone else that she is currently dating."</blockquote>




I thought that but the "when the time is right your son and his gf will give you a grandchild" bit confused me.

Preggo Bear Claw Due April 12; 64 kids; Minnesota 645 posts
23rd Feb '13

Yes, my daughter is her sons child. we were never together - just a quick little fling thing I guess? We were friends who basically had sex... Bad idea, she didnt meet my daughter until she was 6 months old (him either, but that's a different story) but he has a new G/F; and I was basically telling her that if she wants another grandchild, which she seems to crave... She needs to wait on her son and his G/F because we won't ever be having sex again - lol ... I love my daughter to bits, but her son is a life long ... Ummm ... Obstacle now ...

The Great Deku Tree 1 child; Kokiri Forest, IN, United States 4130 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:" Yes, my daughter is her sons child. we were never together - just a quick little fling thing I guess? ... [snip!] ... won't ever be having sex again - lol ... I love my daughter to bits, but her son is a life long ... Ummm ... Obstacle now ..."

You keep making references to the juicy story about what happened w/ him. I'm so curious now! lmao.

Preggo Bear Claw Due April 12; 64 kids; Minnesota 645 posts
23rd Feb '13

I know she has mental attachment issues, and some previous mental health history. I was never fully disclosed though - but there are things she says that make me wonder, and the constant crying is also a concern - but ... IDK what her past holds besides the angel babies and family issues, I can't make everyone happy - so she'll just have to chill...

Martha Marshall 1 child; Whittier, California 1035 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:" I know she has mental attachment issues, and some previous mental health history. I was never fully disclosed ... [snip!] ... what her past holds besides the angel babies and family issues, I can't make everyone happy - so she'll just have to chill..."


nope you just need to focus on keeping yourself and your LOs happy :) and SO :)

Preggo Bear Claw Due April 12; 64 kids; Minnesota 645 posts
23rd Feb '13

Basically, my SO and I have been together for about 4 years, we have a son and lost a set of twins, then I met her son, he was my "trainer" - we have an open relationship so - we had sex, he and I would train together then do stuff afterwards. I got pregnant and he got all psycho and didnt want to be there - I didn't force him, that was the first time his mother got crazy on me, saying I wanted to ruin her sons career (I was always at their house after our training - she always said how pretty I was and how polite I was - but I told her I wasn't interested in her son because she asked point blank if we were screwing over tea ... Yeah I lied) but anyways my partner and I decided to keep her and raise her as our own - then - she caught wind of her birth and I offered to let them meet her. BIG mistake, they love her but I've been in court since September battling her stupid son over my child. He sees her A LOT and we have a parenting plan - no child support is involved or anything - but it's never enough ... *sigh* now, I have all this going on with his mom ... Ugh ...

The Great Deku Tree 1 child; Kokiri Forest, IN, United States 4130 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Preggo Bear Claw:" Basically, my SO and I have been together for about 4 years, we have a son and lost a set of twins, then ... [snip!] ... child support is involved or anything - but it's never enough ... *sigh* now, I have all this going on with his mom ... Ugh ..."

Wowww... yeah she seems to be causing all sorts of problems for you. Does your daughter enjoy spending time with her or her bio dad?
It sounds like grandma is being nice(ish) to your face and then sabotaging the hell out of you.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
23rd Feb '13

WOAH!!! That is a mess. Yikes.

Preggo Bear Claw Due April 12; 64 kids; Minnesota 645 posts
23rd Feb '13

Yeah, I know she's trying to ruin me - secretly ... Lol, but she's being so weird about it... I can't figure her out ! It's annoying and uncomfortable but she's being so nice. Killing me with kindness and ish' ... My daughter loves her, but she usually just sleeps or wants to be held with her bio dad - live she doesn't know what to do with him ... She calls my SO dada and that's all she knows - he's her world, she loves SO more than me haha. He doesn't care about her spending time with her bio dad because he knows she will love him no matter what DNA says, but, the thing that gets me is, his G/F tries too hard to love on my daughter, I know it's fake but - she can't hide it. I guess she was a virgin when they met at church and he told her he was too, well that he was a born again virgin after rape. Lol, when my daughter popped up he said she was out of said rape ... LMAO ... The girl was crushed because they had already had sex and been established as together through the church. Her family was also devastated, when we went to court he had to be honest with everyone and admit the rape story was a lie because ... If it was true she wanted him to press charges ... Now his life is all about damage control with me. He's a piece of crap ... Lesson learned ...

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
23rd Feb '13

I would be careful, she sounds like the baby snatching type

SIDS survivor 17 kids; Washington 196 posts
23rd Feb '13

Change your phone number, then she can't call you. Restraining order for sure! She's psycho! If you let her near that kid she might try to kidnap them. She's not your family and needs to be cut out of your life, if her own son doesn't want to be around her that's probably a sign that your daughter and you shouldn't be around her.

The Great Deku Tree 1 child; Kokiri Forest, IN, United States 4130 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting SIDS survivor:" Change your phone number, then she can't call you. Restraining order for sure! She's psycho! If you let ... [snip!] ... life, if her own son doesn't want to be around her that's probably a sign that your daughter and you shouldn't be around her."

I agree. She obviously didnt do well with her own children, and therefore probably won't with yours.