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Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom 2 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 14528 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" Hence why I said "most of us women." But, uh, good for you? :D"</blockquote>




The point was why accept feeling like shit when you don't necessarily have to.



Well, really the point was that suggesting a therapist isn't some silly, dumb idea, but this thread really snowballed, haha! .

Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom 2 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 14528 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm actually a virgin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" Hence why I said "most of us women." But, ... [snip!] ... I th ink someone is bored. Maybe she got the kids to bed early tonight, or her therapist has the day off lol"</blockquote>




Actually, my kids go to bed at 7pm. And as I said, I have no therapist. :)

[[Breezy]] 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 15610 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" Hence why I said "most of us women." But, ... [snip!] ... Well, really the point was that suggesting a therapist isn't some silly, dumb idea, but this thread really snowballed, haha! ."


Because she realizes she's hormonal and is just feeling a bit insecure, which is the rational and logical psychological explanation for feeling the way she's feeling. :P Seeing a therapist isn't a silly idea if you're really in need of some guided therapy.

[[Breezy]] 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 15610 posts
23rd Feb '13

OP, you're hot, SO's hot, go f**k. :P

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" Because she realizes she's hormonal and is just feeling a bit insecure, which is the rational and logical ... [snip!] ... for feeling the way she's feeling. :P Seeing a therapist isn't a silly idea if you're really in need of some guided therapy."</blockquote>




Shoot I probably do need some th erapy, but not for my hormones ha

Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom 2 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 14528 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" Because she realizes she's hormonal and is just feeling a bit insecure, which is the rational and logical ... [snip!] ... for feeling the way she's feeling. :P Seeing a therapist isn't a silly idea if you're really in need of some guided therapy."</blockquote>



In the op, it wasn't said like that. It was a boo hoo fest about how huge and sad she is because she doesn't feel like sexing her hot so.



:lol:



Now she's said she's just hormonal and venting, which is fine (as I said) but its rude and dumb to knock a perfectly valid suggestion.

[[Breezy]] 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 15610 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" Because she realizes she's hormonal and is ... [snip!] ... in need of some guided therapy."</blockquote> Shoot I probably do need some th erapy, but not for my hormones ha"


:lol:

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" :lol:"</blockquote>




I think I need a session after this thread.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [[Breezy]]:</b>" Because she realizes she's hormonal and is ... [snip!] ... said she's just hormonal and venting, which is fine (as I said) but its rude and dumb to knock a perfectly valid suggestion."</blockquote>




A boo hoo fest? I said I have a sexy SO, I'm pregnat, feel like a cow, and I want to get sexy for him.. hm

Cordelia's Mom 33 kids; Bakersfield, California 3685 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... A boo hoo fest? I said I have a sexy SO, I'm pregnat, feel like a cow, and I want to get sexy for him.. hm"


I just ignore this person at this point. I think it was ridiculous to say that it's just that you don't feel good enough for yourself and that your issues are deeper than just feeling huge and pregnant. That just happens and I see no problem at all with you venting about it. I don't think that calls for therapy and to say you have internal problems.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm actually ... [snip!] ... to be working."</blockquote> How would a therapist help me not feel like a whale? And thanks for not quoting me btw.."


You have a self esteem issue which clearly dates back to before you were pregnant because you state that you never thought he's be with you. You know very well you're not fat, you're pregnant, thus calling yourself a whale is even more reason to consider talking to a professional.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... at the mere suggestion of a therapist."</blockquote> Because therapy and medication doesn't fix everything."


TALKING to someone and taking medication are two completely different things. Therapy generally does fix anything you seek it for, and when it can't it's generally a medical problem that can be aided with medication.



But no one told you to take medicine. I told you to consider talking to a therapist to see why you don't feel like you're adequate. You're welcome for the give-a-shit. I see it was wasted.