Hailey&Ava's Mommy 18 kids; California 1051 posts24th Feb '13
That sounds very stressful but sometimes you have to sit back and take things one at a time instead of trying to solve everything all together... it's almost impossible and will send anyone over the edge. Not sure how you can take some stres off of your husband because I don't know your whole situation but I know taking any little bit of responsibility from him will probably help him out a lot.
user banned Iowa 1784 posts24th Feb '13
yeah I have been trying to take on his stress so he can focus on everything. It is hard because it all seems to hit at once and it is all stuff we have to deal with "right now". Which we don't want to deal with EVERYTHING right now, it just lined up that way. I can't talk to anyone I know about it. Because they are like any regular person, they take sides. Which I don't need that. I just need help with dealing and to vent. I hate the he said she said business not only that but I don't want anyone to form judgements based on my experience. I am one that likes to form my own opinion, and I encourage others to do the same. Even if I am strongly against something. Oh well I am praying it gets better and oddly went to church today together and I swear the pastor was speaking directly to us! Thank god for that!
Jeeper 1 child; Orlando, Florida 2282 posts24th Feb '13
Meds aren't all that bad when your breastfeeding. I am on zoloft right now for my severe depression and it doesn't effect my daughter at all. You hair is falling out because you had a baby 4 months ago that is normal. The stress though maybe you guys need to sit down and relax take a breather and rest. See if he can take an extra day off of work so that you guys can just go out with your boys and have fun. Don't let it get to you I know its hard but chin up things will get better.