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Isn't feelings,attraction? Love what it is.. 1 child; Vidalia, Louisiana 1415 posts
23rd Feb '13

Do you think I relationship works out when two people first meet and know that have to have each other... Like imagine seeing this guy and thinking to your self OMG I want him... And thinking about him so much after that and the guy feeling the same way.. Does instand attraction last?

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15558 posts
23rd Feb '13

What?

Love what it is.. 1 child; Vidalia, Louisiana 1415 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" What? "</blockquote>




Like love at first sight without the love

The One You've Missed 16 kids; Texas 32426 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Love what it is..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" What? "</blockquote> Like love at first sight without the love"

So finding someone hot is that enough to have a relationship?



No idea what you are trying to say?

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15558 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Love what it is..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" What? "</blockquote> Like love at first sight without the love"

So lust at first sight? I guess it depends. Nobody can say for sure. If in a few weeks, or months down the road, all you have in common is the fact you both like sex with each other, it won't last. You need something beyond a sexual connection.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
23rd Feb '13

I have no idea the words coming out of your "mouth".

ElleBelle (35 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 22134 posts
status 23rd Feb '13

No it doesn't last

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
23rd Feb '13

I have never been instantly attracted where I knew I had to have someone. It doesnt work like that for me. I may think someone looks good, but it is in a detached way untill I get to know them a bit better. DH and I were drawn to eachother pretty fast, and very attracted to eachother, and I know we will last.

Love what it is.. 1 child; Vidalia, Louisiana 1415 posts
23rd Feb '13

It isn't his looks or the sex... I felt this way about him before we even had sex and he felt it with me.. He told me his feeling before I said mine.. Idk what it was but the second I seen him I wanted him. And I love his personilaty and how he's so easy to talk to and he actually listens to me and what not.. Like I don't love him but I have so many feelings that didnt take but I month for me to get... Idkk why! I was with someone for like 6 months and never got a but of feelings for him but it's different about this guy..

Love what it is.. 1 child; Vidalia, Louisiana 1415 posts
23rd Feb '13

And noooo. It's not just about this sex or his looks like I actually like this guy an I started to like him the first day I met him and idk how that's even possible!

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15558 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Love what it is..:" And noooo. It's not just about this sex or his looks like I actually like this guy an I started to like him the first day I met him and idk how that's even possible!"

Sometimes you just click with people. Only time will tell if it can last. Nobody can tell you for sure, just take it a day at a time until you both figure out whether you want to make it a forever thing.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
23rd Feb '13

You have a 50/50 chance, just like in any other situation.



The problem is when people build up said person to be something they're not, and then get disappointed when they're not, and then waste years and emotions trying to change said person into the person their built them up to be in their head.

Love what it is.. 1 child; Vidalia, Louisiana 1415 posts
23rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" Sometimes you just click with people. Only time will tell if it can last. Nobody can tell you for sure, ... [snip!] ... can tell you for sure, just take it a day at a time until you both figure out whether you want to make it a forever thing."</blockquote>




Yeah,he moved away... :( but he wants me to move up there with him but I mean even though it feels like I've known him forever I don't want to rush things and mess it all up..

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
23rd Feb '13
Quoting Love what it is..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" Sometimes you just click with people. ... [snip!] ... up there with him but I mean even though it feels like I've known him forever I don't want to rush things and mess it all up.."


Where does he live?
What did you two do in your time together when you were together?
How long have you been dating him?

Love what it is.. 1 child; Vidalia, Louisiana 1415 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Where does he live? What did you two do in your time together when you were together? How long have you been dating him?"</blockquote>




Well he did live walking distance from me but he moved a hour in a half away yesterday... When were around each other all we do is joke and laugh constantly and we talk so much! I'm a shy person but it's so easy talking to him.. And he listens is what is amazing to me.. And we are not dating.. It's only been like this for like a month.. He's been asking me out ALOT but I kept saying no cause I knew he was about to move but know he wants me to come up there when he gets his own place but idk if he's just saying that to make me feel good or he really wants me to.