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CRAZY AS HELL?! Cherry Davis Due March 11; 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 83 posts
24th Feb '13

So I have a really good friend who used to date my brother. It's been 7 years since they dated just a fact.Another fact is she is also married now. Her sister started talking to my brother and my friend got mad because I didn't think that was weird? To me that is just crazy because one I don't control either my brother nor her sister. And two she is hung up on a guy she dated for 4 months almost 7 years ago it wasn't a serious relationship by any means so I don't see why she is mad at me?? HELP?

user banned 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
24th Feb '13

tell her to get the hell over it. And then I'd never discuss it again. lol

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26; 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
24th Feb '13

It's not up to you to judge if it was serious or not. It's none of your business she shouldn't drag you in to it however is flip too if my sister dated one of my exes. You don't touch what a friends touched. Ever.

Cherry Davis Due March 11; 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 83 posts
24th Feb '13

I would be content with never discussing it but she has taken it far enough to make a post on fb about needing new friends because her "so called" best friend isn't a friend at all. We have been friends for over 10 years so it's just really messed up to me that she is mad solely because I don't share her opinion about it being wrong.

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1754 posts
24th Feb '13

When I would feel completely uncomfortable if my sister ever dated one of my ex's, who they date is their business not mine or my friends. If she gets mad at you then let her get made, you have no control over who your brother dates and she has no control over who her sister dates. Just stay out of it and let them be

SaucyPoppet Due July 10; 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
24th Feb '13

My family has a strict No f**king Family Member's Exes rule cause..uhm..ew.

Cherry Davis Due March 11; 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 83 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" It's not up to you to judge if it was serious or not. It's none of your business she shouldn't drag you ... [snip!] ... drag you in to it however is flip too if my sister dated one of my exes. You don't touch what a friends touched. Ever."


I am not judging if it was serious I know for a fact it wasn't she was dating my brother he told me it wasn't and she is my best friend she tells me everything. She is married so she is obviously moved on being mad at me and making post on fb about me for not sharing her opinion on it is retarded.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26; 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cherry Davis:</b>" I am not judging if it was serious I know for a fact it wasn't she was dating my brother he told me ... [snip!] ... so she is obviously moved on being mad at me and making post on fb about me for not sharing her opinion on it is retarded. "</blockquote>




I don't think she is mad at you because of the situation. I think she is mad because she is upset and her best friend has blown off her feelings as being out of line.

Cherry Davis Due March 11; 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 83 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cherry Davis:</b>" I am not judging if it was serious I know ... [snip!] ... of the situation. I think she is mad because she is upset and her best friend has blown off her feelings as being out of line."

I didn't blow off her feelings I told her simply it has nothing to do with me so she has no reason to be mad at me. That would be like me being mad at her if I used to date her brother and now my sister did then writing a fb post about her being a shitty friend.