It is none of your business. Sucks that she did that but hopefully she has somewhat a heart and cares about this guy enough to tell him.
Leave it alone not your business
I would tell him because it sucked ass that nobody fucking told me shit until a girl I had never even met before decided to tell me. I hate when people say 'don't do shit, not your business.' Think about the person being cheated on & who has NO idea about it.
Not your marriage to be concerned about.and your mom is right even though you should not of even told her.
Honestly, I'd leave that mess alone.
That's their business and he'll realize on his own eventually what kind of gal she is.
I've been both in her shoes and in the other person's. I personally am very thankful someone ratted me out when I was having an affair because I was being a heartless prick asshole and my DH deserved better than that. he deserved the truth and I hadn't the balls to tell him.
As you know I've been in this situation, I cheated on your now SO 5 years ago when we were dating, got pregnant and I told him right away. I thought he deserved to know that I did him wrong. He didn't leave me because of that though Jacinda, he left me because him and I never truly loved each other and weren't happy together. It was all about our kids, That's why we got married. I think you should talk to your friend and tell her that either she tells her SO or you will because you dont think what she did or is doing is right. If you are afraid of losing her as a friend then just stay out of it and hope that she will tell him.
Quoting Princess Leia's mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl:</b>" As you know I've been in this ... [snip!] ... if she gets mad at me I guess. I know he needs to be told by someone. Just don't know how I'm going to get her to tell him."
yea he told me too, i know all the reasons. Like i said tell her that you will tell him if she doesnt, or that somebody will and if he finds out from someone other than her it will be a lot worse.