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BabyMamax5 Due August 30 (boy); 52 kids; Potsdam, New York 804 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting 36-24-36OnlyIfshes5-3:" There is not shortage of homes for healthy newborns, however a major issue arises when people decide ... [snip!] ... doing drugs or smoking while pregnant. Which may cause a child to be born with disabilities and less likely to be adopted out. "

That's why I think pro choice is so important, some women just can't do it.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BabyMamax5:</b>" They clipped his heels and inner thigh muscles but it didn't work, they want to do it again and this ... [snip!] ... again and this time do behind his knees. and if THAT doesn't work they want to break his hips and plate and pin them. He's 5!!"</blockquote>




I'm so sorry.
If you abort what are the chances your next child will have the same defect?



It's up to you in the end.



If the likeliness if it occurring again is slim and you can try again then I would. :(

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 116950 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Lucas'Mama:" Lol no I haven't seen it, but that's still ridiculously rare."


12 or 13 episodes a season with 2-3 stories in each episode....at least 3 seasons. I mean you do the math, thats just people they choose for the show. I'm sure more shared their story.

Loretta West [+1] Due March 25; TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 5806 posts
status 24th Feb '13
Quoting Sarah Bare-ah♡:" Because a lot of people dont find out until that far along. Its not as uncommon as you think."

I'm more talking past viability. anything before that, well I wouldn't do it, but it's the womans choice.

BabyMamax5 Due August 30 (boy); 52 kids; Potsdam, New York 804 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BabyMamax5:</b>" They clipped his heels and inner thigh muscles ... [snip!] ... defect? It's up to you in the end. If the likeliness if it occurring again is slim and you can try again then I would. :("

I am getting my tubes tied. I had Mirena in and it almost completely fell out and I got pregnant with this baby. I just can't bring myself to bring a baby into this world where I'm the cause of the defect. I feel so guilty about my 2 children with the disorder.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103319 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" Lol no I haven't seen it, but that's still ridiculously rare."</blockquote>




1 in 450 doesn't know her status until week 20 or later (more than halfway through the pregnancy), and 1 in 2,500 is oblivious until she actually goes into labor.



Ahh yes, ridiculously rare.

Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 21912 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 36-24-36OnlyIfshes5-3:</b>" :roll: yourself. Someone doesn't ... [snip!] ... 2wks off is still wrong and the spreading of misinformation (no matter how minute) is still irr Whatever. Move along now"


Clever comeback. :lol:

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103319 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 36-24-36OnlyIfshes5-3:</b>" Clever comeback. :lol:"</blockquote>




Not a comeback. Just don't have enough f**ks to give you.

BabyMamax5 Due August 30 (boy); 52 kids; Potsdam, New York 804 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:" Oh my gosh, poor baby :("

He is in horrible pain everyday and has a very hard time in school. He has a wheelchair, walker, crutches and leg braces. He get's botox injections in his calves and thighs every 6-8wks. His fine motor is terrible he cannot be potty trained and his emotional "age" is that of a 1yr old- he's 5.

Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 21912 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting BabyMamax5:" That's why I think pro choice is so important, some women just can't do it."



Yep, that's why I am pro-choice, not so much for the women but the unborn children. I do feel that in some cases aborting is the humane thing to do.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" Lol no I haven't seen it, but that's still ridiculously rare."</blockquote>




I bled all the way through my pregnancy and had a negative blood test at 7 weeks. I only knew because we were trying and I insisted on an ultrasound. If not I wouldn't have known for a long time because I didn't show quick

BabyMamax5 Due August 30 (boy); 52 kids; Potsdam, New York 804 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" Lol no I haven't seen it, but that's still ... [snip!] ... we were trying and I insisted on an ultrasound. If not I wouldn't have known for a long time because I didn't show quick"

With my first pregnancy I took 10 pee tests and 1 blood and the all said negative but I was pregnant the whole time.

JΔS Georgia 72874 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sarah Bare-ah♡:</b>" 12 or 13 episodes a season with 2-3 stories in each episode....at least 3 seasons. I mean you do the math, thats just people they choose for the show. I'm sure more shared their story."</blockquote>



My bony ass mom (well bony at the time) didn't find out until she was damn near 6 months along and there was two of us in there! She didn't show until she was 7 months then she blew up :lol:

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BabyMamax5:</b>" He is in horrible pain everyday and has a very hard time in school. He has a wheelchair, walker, crutches ... [snip!] ... every 6-8wks. His fine motor is terrible he cannot be potty trained and his emotional "age" is that of a 1yr old- he's 5."</blockquote>




That's so sad. It must be very emotionally and financially draining

Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 21912 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 36-24-36OnlyIfshes5-3:</b>" Clever comeback. :lol:"</blockquote> Not a comeback. Just don't have enough f**ks to give you."


And the follow up is a cliche, overused, tired and trite pharse. Mental giant right here folks!




If you can't tell by now (I realize you are the most swift here but really?) I'm obviously f**king with you, mostly because you took such offense to being corrected when initially it was completely harmless and with well intentions on my part.