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Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26615 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" I have had 1 genuine male friend my entire life. I have had many guy friends but it usually ends with ... [snip!] ... Eventually he admitted having feelings for and it ruined our friendship, he couldn't handle that I didn't fee the same way. "</blockquote>



That tends to be it for me too. Dude catches feelings. I guess they can't handle a cute girl who can be one of the guys and is easy to get along with.
I'm a pain in the ass as a girlfriend but as a friend m super easygoing.

JΔS Georgia 74481 posts
status 24th Feb '13

My husband can be friends with whoever he wants to. I'll be damned if he ever thought he could control who I am friends with. There should be boundaries, of course, and respect should be maintained.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" I have tons more guy friends than I do chick friends. If somebody told me that was wrong or tried to tell me I couldn't do that then f**k that shit they aren't worth my time."


:!:

Mommy2Kay Due April 20; 1 child; Florida 4230 posts
24th Feb '13
Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" I have had 1 genuine male friend my entire life. ... [snip!] ... can be one of the guys and is easy to get along with. I'm a pain in the ass as a girlfriend but as a friend m super easygoing."


I know! When I told me what happened everyone would look at me like I'm crazy because they all knew. I was in such denial!! I should've know...we would literally walk holding hands, or him carrying me around...Those were such fun days...now I miss being in HS lol

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
24th Feb '13

I have 2 best friends. One of which is male. We have kissed before. That's it.



If SO suddenly developed a close female friend I would not be happy. It's different if the friendship was prior to relationship

Sweetheart...* Due July 30 (girl); 1 child; Florida 1290 posts
24th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" I have had 1 genuine male friend my entire life. I have had many guy friends but it usually ends with ... [snip!] ... Eventually he admitted having feelings for and it ruined our friendship, he couldn't handle that I didn't fee the same way. "</blockquote>




This also, but that guy friend is gay and were still friends. He just lives like 1000 miles away. Other than him i have never had a guy friend that didnt try to get w me. So annoying

Gold 2 kids; Somewhere under Wonderland, VA, United States 38822 posts
status 24th Feb '13

My best friend is male and we've never had any issues. But we also have no desire to be with each other and totally aren't each others types lol.



As for friends with an ex, I wouldn't know.




Eta. My husband's best friend is also female.

Smash Fins ; 2 kids; Denver, Colorado 1289 posts
24th Feb '13

It honestly depends.



If my husbands girlfriends are friends with me as well I am totally fine with them being friends. But if I have made multiple attempts to be friends with them and they only continue to talk to my husband and talk smack about me to my husband, then they have no business being friends.