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Cheating... 624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
25th Feb '13

If your SO/DH/whatever confessed that they cheated on you at some point in your relationship would you want to know the details?



Because DH and I are weird this came up in one of our "what if..." scenarios tonight. :lol:

Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7176 posts
25th Feb '13

Yea, I'm way too curious for my own good.

Im watching you 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Adelaide, Australia 4985 posts
25th Feb '13

my daughters father did
all i wanted to know was why , and he couldnt answer lol

RonniG Due July 19; 1 child; Plentywood, Montana 2036 posts
25th Feb '13

Yes, If we were going to stay together I would need to know the details. A relationship can't move on without full disclosure.

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Im watching you:" my daughters father did all i wanted to know was why , and he couldnt answer lol"


In his defense...what could he have said "Because I'm a stupid f**king idiot"?:wink:

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting RonniG:" Yes, If we were going to stay together I would need to know the details. A relationship can't move on without full disclosure. "


And if you weren't? I feel like I would want to know either way. I would need that closure for either path, I'd think.

RonniG Due July 19; 1 child; Plentywood, Montana 2036 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting 624582:" And if you weren't? I feel like I would want to know either way. I would need that closure for either path, I'd think."


If I didn't care enough to stay in the relationship then f**k it. I don't need to know.

Eli&Elliot's Mommy! 2 kids; Brooklyn, New York 2109 posts
25th Feb '13

He would have to tell me everything!

Van West Auckland, NZ, New Zealand 3179 posts
25th Feb '13

It would probably make me feel worse knowing the details but yes I would want to know.

Tara plus 3! Due October 10 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Missouri 2773 posts
25th Feb '13

What positions? How was it? Was she hot? Were her b**bs big? Lol I'd be asking everything! Id be upset but whatever.

Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7600 posts
25th Feb '13

I'd be curious but I don't know if I'd ask. Cheating is grounds for automatic divorce. If he wanted to f**k someone, I'd seriously he rather tell me ahead of time than cheat.

Shanon Hutchens Due June 22 (boy); 2 kids; Seymour, Tennessee 543 posts
25th Feb '13

yeah i knew the girl but i made him give me details even tho he didnt want to talk about it. it was really hard to deal with and i still have some issues with it.

JohnSilverSmith TTC since Dec 2011; 3 kids; Groton, Connecticut 465 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting 624582:" If your SO/DH/whatever confessed that they cheated on you at some point in your relationship would you ... [snip!] ... you want to know the details? Because DH and I are weird this came up in one of our "what if..." scenarios tonight. :lol:"

I didn't have to ask. I walked in on it.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
25th Feb '13

No. this baby's dad cheated on me. that's all I need to or care to know.

xluucyx Due August 20 (boy); Maidenhead, United Kingdom 36 posts
25th Feb '13

Yeah, so I could decide if i'd be able to forgive him or not. Although I doubt I'd ever really be able to stay in the relationship if he cheated (I'm pretty insecure and jealous as it is, I'd probably go mad, it'd be no fun for anyone) it'd be easier to stay friends (for the sake of our child, more than anything) if it was just a drunken mistake or something like that.