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Cast Your Vote:

    • keep the stuff and let him ruin it -- Votes: 9
    • exchange it for stuff he can actually wear and get use out of -- Votes: 8
Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" its hair that ive maintained and it means ... [snip!] ... It's just hair honey. I know dreads take a lot of time and maintenance but at the end of the day IT'S JUST HAIR."


no its my work. its my time my efforts. his hair has been my dream since i was younger no one touches it no one twost it its all done by me. so the edge is very importatn and as always he f**ks shit up bc hes a ball less fucktard who let the barber do as he pleases

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" i ooffered to go he said HE GOTS THIS no you dont you never do after 3.5 yrs he still DOESNT know his ... [snip!] ... know his sons size he claims he tried everything on yet everything is huge wtf im over his stupid shitty lacks of efforts"</blockquote>



Is it really that serious? You're going to make your son's life very difficult if you decide to act this way, over petty shit, with his father. If the clothes are too big, so what. Save them for when he can fit them. My son's grandmother always buys clothes for him that he won't be able to fit until we are 2 years down the road. It's not a big deal.



You should be focusing on co-parenting instead of bringing him down just to build yourself up. You may need to get your own insecurities in check. I'm sure he would come around more if you brought it down a couple of notches. My husband's ex use to act just like you. Called him stupid, said he was a dead beat because he was in the Army, etc etc. M didn't want to deal with it. He would wait until the weekend, when his mother picked up his son, so he could call and talk to him.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].
☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" no im tired of making up for his sorry ass. he got detailed instructions and even pics how hard is it ... [snip!] ... not once have i let a barber tell me wth to do w his hair im so specific his dumb ass is nothing but a lazy ball less c**t"


Maybe he really is just stupid, or maybe he is doing it to spite you. I don't really know. But either way you guys need to work something out. You need to calm down. Marc doesn't need the hostility between you two and you don't need to get worked up over something as simple as clothes. Just exchange it but at least he did try.

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" no its my work. its my time my efforts. his hair has been my dream since i was younger no one touches ... [snip!] ... so the edge is very importatn and as always he f**ks shit up bc hes a ball less fucktard who let the barber do as he pleases"


Your dream is your sons hair??



Seriously, back off a bit. It'll grow back and you can cut it your oh-so-specific way next time.



Hate to see what happens when your son is a teenager and you're still trying to decide what his hair cut is.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" no its my work. its my time my efforts. his hair has been my dream since i was younger no one touches ... [snip!] ... so the edge is very importatn and as always he f**ks shit up bc hes a ball less fucktard who let the barber do as he pleases"</blockquote>




And what are you going to do if he wants to cut his hair? His hair has been your dream? HIS HAIR. That's nuts. My dreams for my kids include being professionals and highly successful. Not having a specific hair style.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" he claims he did pick them out and thats ... [snip!] ... Hmmmm I wonder why. A man doesn't want to deal with the shit you come with. You need to calm down and stop acting like that."


he doesnt come bc hes a promoter and an IT director and chooses to work and buy himself expensive shit tham to take tie out for his son. since he cant wor while my sons w him according to court documents he refuses to take him. broken promises daily and everytime he takes him he just buys him shit to make up for being a f**king bastard who isnt around

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting SavageDarling:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" he claims he did pick them out and thats ... [snip!] ... when he takes him shopping. He's not a babysitter who broke your rules, he's the kid's father. Let him parent when he has him."


he doesnt come around and doesnt do shit but buy him crap he has no say. he was sent w a list of whats needed he should of done what he was told. eregardless of what hes MY son and i care for him alone he doesnt do shit so he has no say and i will keep it this way until he does as needed and grows up

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I think it is incredibly sweet that he wants to dress like his father. I wonder if that is more what you are upset about...."


part of it does bc his dad doesnt do shit. absolutely nothing but buy him expensive shit to bribe him to tay the weekeend so he gets credit

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" he doesnt come bc hes a promoter and an IT director and chooses to work and buy himself expensive shit ... [snip!] ... broken promises daily and everytime he takes him he just buys him shit to make up for being a f**king bastard who isnt around"</blockquote>



I don't know your BD and by all means, I'm not defending him. BUT your actions sweetie...you're not innocent in this situation. You are acting cray over some really silly things. Why are you so angry? This isn't about clothes or hair, it's deeper than that.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45001 posts
status 25th Feb '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" part of it does bc his dad doesnt do shit. absolutely nothing but buy him expensive shit to bribe him to tay the weekeend so he gets credit"


Credit from who? A 3.5 year old?

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" i ooffered to go he said HE GOTS THIS ... [snip!] ... want to deal with it. He would wait until the weekend, when his mother picked up his son, so he could call and talk to him."

even when im nice he doesnt do shit right, its been 2 yrs still same cycle im done being nice. hes 37 and a promoter who wories about parties rather than his son,. f**k being nice he can kiss my ass, he should know better this isnt gma its his father he lives 10 mins away and never comes by or us able to see his son even when in the hospital. i spent a week in the hospital and his dad had a party every night and couldnt take him so as far as im concerned he has NO RIGHTS hes a bastard who can go f**k off

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].
Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" he doesnt come bc hes a promoter and an IT director and chooses to work and buy himself expensive shit ... [snip!] ... broken promises daily and everytime he takes him he just buys him shit to make up for being a f**king bastard who isnt around"


....so he can't work when he has him, so he can't take him because he has to work? Sounds... pretty damn reasonable to me. I wouldn't be able to pay my rent if I wasn't able to go to work in order to see my child. That's not quite how life works.

Aiden,Jared&Olivia's momm 35 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 686 posts
25th Feb '13

U sound like a b***h...He bought HIS son clothes and your pissed....smh