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Cast Your Vote:

    • keep the stuff and let him ruin it -- Votes: 9
    • exchange it for stuff he can actually wear and get use out of -- Votes: 8
Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" no its my work. its my time my efforts. ... [snip!] ... HAIR. That's nuts. My dreams for my kids include being professionals and highly successful. Not having a specific hair style."


i would probably cry and try and talk him out of it but right now he loves it as much as i do

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" he doesnt come bc hes a promoter and ... [snip!] ... are acting cray over some really silly things. Why are you so angry? This isn't about clothes or hair, it's deeper than that."

its everything its not just this time its everytime like for once do shit right. get the right size the right color the right something NOTHING fit nothing was right how hard it is for a man to know hisown son?

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" even when im nice he doesnt do shit right, its been 2 yrs still same cycle im done being nice. hes 37 ... [snip!] ... dad had a party every night and couldnt take him so as far as im concerned he has NO RIGHTS hes a bastard who can go f**k off"</blockquote>




He sounds like he needs to grow up, for sure but so do you. You either want him in your son's life or you don't. No halfsies. One thing that's for sure is that you two need to keep the peace with each other.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Credit from who? A 3.5 year old?"


for the courts

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
25th Feb '13

Why would his father want to even try when no matter what he does you're just going to act like its shit. GET OVER IT.



Your son's hair is your DREAM? Healthy.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting The Doctor:" ....so he can't work when he has him, so he can't take him because he has to work? Sounds... pretty ... [snip!] ... me. I wouldn't be able to pay my rent if I wasn't able to go to work in order to see my child. That's not quite how life works."


hes a promoter works at aprties and clubs. if that wasnt a clause he would ditch him w whomever was avail and work all weekend like he does his oldest son

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" its everything its not just this time its everytime like for once do shit right. get the right size the ... [snip!] ... the right size the right color the right something NOTHING fit nothing was right how hard it is for a man to know hisown son?"</blockquote>




I told you, some men suck at kid clothes shopping. My husband is a grade A father, he still doesn't know what size the kids wear. That has nothing to do with his parenting.



If clothing sizes are making you this angry, you need a therapist.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" even when im nice he doesnt do shit right, ... [snip!] ... in your son's life or you don't. No halfsies. One thing that's for sure is that you two need to keep the peace with each other."


i would rather him not w his lack of efforts he makes my life hell. and he doesnt see the damage he causes his son

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" its everything its not just this time ... [snip!] ... the kids wear. That has nothing to do with his parenting. If clothing sizes are making you this angry, you need a therapist."


its more than that. lack of atten. he does nothing. if you tale your son w you how can the cloths be too big? like just common sense everything is half assed so he might as well not bother its all or nothing

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45011 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" for the courts"


Judges aren't stupid. They know that someone buying their kid expensive pants doesn't make up for being an absentee or negligent parent.



Have you considered counseling for your obvious anger issues and your over-attachment to your child?

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
25th Feb '13

Okay so here is the thing. Yes your BD is an a*****e. I agree. No he doens't see Marc as much as he should. But honestly when he does come around let Marc enjoy it. Let him buy him whatever and if it's something that can be used then use it. If it's something to big let him grow into it, if it's completely unreasonable exchange it.
You both are adults and you need to co-parent Marc. If he isn't going to come around as often as he should okay whatever, then just keep parenting Marc, when he doesn't let Marc go, but bad mouthing him and being an ass back isn't going to help because Marc is ultimately the one who is going to suffer.
Yeah I was pissed when Jamison's dad bought the complete wrong size for his stuff for Christmas but then I thought about it and I was like it could be worst. He could not help at all be no where to be found. And Jamison had a ball with his daddy and grandparents and step mom. He doesn't get to see them a lot and I get to enjoy him basically every day. Jamison doesn't give a shit about clothes or shoes. He rather be naked. So I just got him the exact same shoes in a different size. Just do something like that.
You're going to have come to a common ground of Marc may hate you for pushing his daddy away or hate you both when he gets older.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 20544 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" he claims he did pick them out and thats why he picked out cloths likehis dads work cloths. either way ... [snip!] ... instructions and hes 37 w 3 kids. screw calming down hes better off out of the pic for what little coming and going he does"


It sounds like he had a nice day with his son and you're trying to think of anyway to ruin and belittle it.

talexys 1 child; Ontario 1138 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" its more than that. lack of atten. he does nothing. if you tale your son w you how can the cloths be ... [snip!] ... can the cloths be too big? like just common sense everything is half assed so he might as well not bother its all or nothing"


Well obviously your anger goes way deeper then the clothes. My spouse bought our new born a 3-6 month outfit for her new born photo shoot. Some men, don't have that common sense. I didnt get mad at him though because it was cute that he tried.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Judges aren't stupid. They know that someone buying their kid expensive pants doesn't make up for being ... [snip!] ... or negligent parent. Have you considered counseling for your obvious anger issues and your over-attachment to your child?"


as i wait for the courts its hard not to be so angry.its alwasy a run around. i just wish i didnt have to deal w him ever again



i have no choice but to be over atached. its always been just me and him. we were married and for over a yr he did nothing. while pregnant he wasnt there . all he cares about is his work. he never in his has raised any of his kids and i hate the fact that hes superman to my son when im bustig my ass to keep his life as it was before his father destroyed it.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" i would rather him not w his lack of efforts he makes my life hell. and he doesnt see the damage he causes his son"</blockquote>




I feel sorry for him, your son and you. It's just a shame.