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☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
Feb 25th '13

I think you're still hung up on you're relationship and how it ended. I don't think you're going to get anywhere until you get over it and him being with that woman. You just need to stop and respect him and vice versa. Let the court system handle it and let it go.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" that hes a d**k and doesnt try. like ... [snip!] ... talked him around me. Try not to put any negative thoughts about him in your son's head. Let him be the judge of his father."

I dot tell him anything hes 3 but i do tell him daddys working which is usually the truth he just doesnt know what he does. i just dont make excuses or when say daddys coming b i know hes not coming and stuff like that

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting SavageDarling:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" i never said id talk down but i wont ... [snip!] ... THAT sounds like what's best for the child. You seriously need some counciling before you do permanent damage to your child."


WRONG i tell him his dads working my son always says his das too busy working and thats why he doesnt come to daycare parties and karate events. thats what i mean by telling him the truth

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You keep saying US. There is no US when you aren't in a relationship. It's HIS SON, not YOU. He owes YOU nothing."


its an US since i have to make up for his li8es and broken promises. i have to deal w the behavior issues and the emotions when he f**ks up and doesnt come for weeks. life is great when he decides to go missing. no wheres daddy why isnt daddy coming i want daddy daddy daddy when i cant do shit to make his dad come.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].
Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" i never said id talk down but i wont ... [snip!] ... It took me awhile to get past that. I can't imagine how I would have felt if my own mother told me that my dad didn't love me."


i dont tell him he doesnt love him bc he does he just doesnt put him as apriority and instead oflying ike his dad wants and saying dads busy or whateevr i say thr truth daddy is workinf or daddys at the club. he chose to go to the club or to work. not me so im not covering up the lies

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" I dot tell him anything hes 3 but i do ... [snip!] ... and stuff like that"</blockquote> And when he's older? You already said that you're not going to lie or whatever."


whens hes older he will know his dad is out at the club and that he picks work events over weekends w him. he can ask his father why and when hes older his dad wont be able to lie about it, i try i realy do i give him options fr days although he took me to court for custody bc he couldnt come and go as he pleased and work while w him. he still doesnt show up doesnt call or comes late. but yet hes on time for every party

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49484 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" i dont tell him he doesnt love him bc he does he just doesnt put him as apriority and instead oflying ... [snip!] ... thr truth daddy is workinf or daddys at the club. he chose to go to the club or to work. not me so im not covering up the lies"


His dad IS busy....he is busy working or networking.



It's not lying.



You just want to make him out to be a complete d**k.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" His dad IS busy....he is busy working or networking. It's not lying. You just want to make him out to be a complete d**k."


no im just tired of him being a hero that does NOTHING

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" whens hes older he will know his dad ... [snip!] ... like he's out partying. It's his job, he's a club promoter.....would you be bitching if he was a doctor and always in the OR?"


he is partying its by choice.that what makes me so mad. he could of let someone else do it everypic hes wasted its not like hes collecting money and moving to the next party his ass is lieterally popping bottles getting wasted and posting the pics online which serve as proof as to why i dont like my son w him. i dont do shit w out my son my life is on hold until hes in bed. if he cant do the same then why did he want a kid?



eta its always been choice he chooose to workk choose to spend his money he figured why give up on his dream when he could always come home. when the option wasnt to come home he said f**k it work wont leave me and he devoted it all to work. not once has he evr helped me or done shit to make my life easier w his son. not onec habe i asked for antyhign other than for marc not once has he even bothered to try to be on time or there when needed NOT ONCE not even while living together

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49484 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" no im just tired of him being a hero that does NOTHING"


I get that. But, degrading him to his child will just make you look like a b***h.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I get that. But, degrading him to his child will just make you look like a b***h."


i know this but i aslo cant lie to my son and say oh hes busy and when he asks doing whatat do i say planting a garden? no he is out and about drinking working partying living his dream. his dream wasnt to be a husband ir father it was to be a damn promoter and its not fair to my son that his dad chooses not to come. hell i wish i could choose to sleep in when im sick instead of getting up to care for my son w no help.

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49484 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" i know this but i aslo cant lie to my son and say oh hes busy and when he asks doing whatat do i say ... [snip!] ... chooses not to come. hell i wish i could choose to sleep in when im sick instead of getting up to care for my son w no help."


You just tell him he is busy, end of story. You don't need to elaborate and tell him that his father (who he already loves and looks up to) doesn't want to be with him. THAT will hurt him far more.



Sounds like you are jealous that you can't go out and do what you want, and that he chose not to be with you. Just because he was a shitty boyfriend doesn't mean he is a shitty father.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You just tell him he is busy, end of story. You don't need to elaborate and tell him that his father ... [snip!] ... what you want, and that he chose not to be with you. Just because he was a shitty boyfriend doesn't mean he is a shitty father."


no hes a shitty dad always has been he lied to me and after i got pregnant i found out, he was ashitty husband now just a shity boyfriend. married 4 times and didnt tell me that either until after. its not my feelins twpards him reality is hes a shitty dad comes and goes as he pleases. i choose to take my son w me i could go be free. i have people who can help but IMO its my responsibility not theirs, and its his not anyone elses either. he just wants to do as he pleases, i asked a mutual friend am i wrong for being so mad and she agreed im not, he should at least know his son enough to know his hair style and his cloths and he doesnt, its sad. no matter how people try to excuse his actions theres no excuse good enough for not knowing our own son.

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49484 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" no hes a shitty dad always has been he lied to me and after i got pregnant i found out, he was ashitty ... [snip!] ... he doesnt, its sad. no matter how people try to excuse his actions theres no excuse good enough for not knowing our own son."


Well, good luck bringing this petty shit up in court.



My ex did something similar when his mother didn't like the haircut I gave my daughter. The judge slammed him for bringing up something so petty and he was required to pay my lawyer's fees.