I can't tell u how to fix ur relationship n neither can these other ladies it is only u who know what u truly want maybe spend a few days apart give u some time for just u to reflect on how u really feel I will tell u that I am in love with a guy I have fought hard to be with n he has also fought to be with me cuz he also hasn't always treated me very well at all I'm happy to be going on almost 4 years of rough on n off with him but now we have a baby on the way n we had to work on our communication skills but this is our 3 rd try at being together n we r better than we ever have been... I do not think anyone can love the way they did their first for the fact that it was ur first it was so new us never had the feeling before n the first time u feel love is so special so just cuz u don't feel what u felt with the first guy is no reason to want to give up on someone u really care about n u have to care otherwise u would not have posted trying to find ways to fix it u really just need to talk maybe go on a date get that special feeling "butterflies" that brought u to want to be with him in the first place :)
Quoting BG Secrets:" Now before you start calling me names and jump to conclusions, I would NEVER actually go through with ... [snip!] ... so much thinking about beig with one of those guys. Ugh! Sorry for any type-o's I tried to wright this fast before SO sees it."
I'm in relationship kind of like that now...he is so good to me and my son but my God he gets on my fucking nerves!! We are technically on a break right now because idk if I want to stay with him. Idk if i can handle it. I mean, everything thing he does bothers me. He makes obnoxious noises because he is bored, he wants to be all over me constantly, he smacks his food and that alone makes me feel like killing him 99% of the time. The only thing keeping me around is the fact that he has his own place, and i still live with his parents, he helps me with my baby when I need a break..and I'm worried I won't ever find anyone else that will be so good to me and LO...so I have no advice...but i feel your pain. :/