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I don't know my SO.. Blair B 1 child; Pennsylvania 853 posts
25th Feb '13

I was really bored so I decided to look up my SOs name on google.. I found out some interesting things I didn't know about him like past girlfriends and he has a sister he doesn't speak to anymore I knew nothing about this. Also he has profiles on like 5 different dating sites. Idk what to do should I be worried? We have been dating for 2 years and have a kid together..

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
25th Feb '13

I'd be concerned if you've been dating for 2 yrs and didnt know he had a sister. The dating site accounts could be old.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
25th Feb '13

bring it up to him. Do the dating sites have an updated picture of him?

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 8253 posts
25th Feb '13

I'd be concerned if it seemed like there was recent activities on the dating sites... my DH has an account on a dating site, but he never gets on it anymore. And not knowing he had a sister, well... he may not have thought it was really necessary for you to know?

Blair B 1 child; Pennsylvania 853 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Madi's*Mama:</b>" Is be concerned if you've been dating for 2 yrs and didnt know he had a sister. The dating site accounts could be old ."</blockquote>




I think the dating sites are old.. It says his current age though does it just update your age automatically? And yeah he has a sister on his fathers side he doesn't talk to his father so I don't know anything abount that side

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20865 posts
25th Feb '13

If he has been active on the dating sites then yes I would be worried.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Madi's*Mama:" I'd be concerned if you've been dating for 2 yrs and didnt know he had a sister. The dating site accounts could be old."


This!!!!

Blair B 1 child; Pennsylvania 853 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" bring it up to him. Do the dating sites have an updated picture of him? "</blockquote>




No but it has his age that he is now

♥MamaToSilas♥ 1 child; Illinois 9243 posts
status 25th Feb '13

Are you SURE it was him and not just someone with the same name?
Dating sites could be old.
Exs shouldnt be a big deal :?
And the fact that he doesnt talk to his sister is probably the same reason he doesnt talk ABOUT her. Theres a reason



I personally wouldnt be upset about any of it

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19589 posts
25th Feb '13

how do you look someone up? type in their whole name? i tried to google my SO and there is all this other stuff about these people who arent my SO

Blair B 1 child; Pennsylvania 853 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥MamaToSilas♥:</b>" Are you SURE it was him and not just someone with the same name? Dating sites could be old. Exs shouldnt ... [snip!] ... his sister is probably the same reason he doesnt talk ABOUT her. Theres a reason I personally wouldnt be upset about any of it"</blockquote>




Yes deft him. It has his pics and everything. And don't you think I should know a little about his fathers side though?

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" bring it up to him. Do the dating sites have an updated picture of him? "</blockquote> No but it has his age that he is now"


that doesnt mean anything. they use the birthdate and update automatically. new photos or info would be a different story

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" how do you look someone up? type in their whole name? i tried to google my SO and there is all this other stuff about these people who arent my SO"


Full name and the city and state they live in.

Blair B 1 child; Pennsylvania 853 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting HotMom21ERF:</b>" how do you look someone up? type in their whole name? i tried to google my SO and there is all this other stuff about these people who arent my SO"</blockquote>




I looked up his first and last name and the state and city we live in. I found his old myspace form spring and tons of dating site profiles

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥MamaToSilas♥:</b>" Are you SURE it was him and ... [snip!] ... Yes deft him. It has his pics and everything. And don't you think I should know a little about his fathers side though?"</blockquote>



I personally think you should know about the sister. I've cut off contact with my brother but dh still knows I have a brother. Same with an uncle I haven't seen since I was 5, I just tell him I don't like to talk about it so we don't talk about it.