Stfu Squirrel District of Columbia 8554 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Jessicalane19:" But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk."


I don't see a problem with that.
Of course she's attached, she's the one who wanted a baby in the first place. How could he not be expected to feel totally betrayed by her actions? Yeah he should support her choice, but for that matter, she should support his too, and if he wasn't in a place where he was ready to have a kid, she needed to respect that before causing the whole mess.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
25th Feb '13

Whoever flagged this was it to remove from AS ?

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
25th Feb '13

The only fault that I can see that the man made was trusting his partner when she said she was on the pill.



He should not have to have any part in the raising of the child. In this situation, honestly, I DON'T feel that he should have to pay child support. He should not go back to her, regardless of whether or not she aborts. That was awful, and shamefully decietful. If the woman decided she wanted a child that badly, she should be fully prepared to parent on her own. He cannot force her to have an abortion, but she should not force him to try to raise the child.

Redneck Mamma North Carolina 8746 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" Whoever flagged this was it to remove from AS ?"


More than likely. This definitely doesnt belong there.

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" Whoever flagged this was it to remove from AS ?"



I voted for it to go to TDC because it doesn't belong in AS.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103308 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" Whoever flagged this was it to remove from AS ?"</blockquote>




Yup. It doesn't belong there

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" Whoever flagged this was it to remove from AS ?"


I was wondering the same thing...

ETA: Thats what I figured, but was just checking :)

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting a s h l e y.:</b>" I voted for it to go to TDC because it doesn't belong in AS."</blockquote>



Excellent I thought that was the plan.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" I was wondering the same thing... ETA: Thats what I figured, but was just checking :)"</blockquote>




Haha yeah it popped up and I was like... This is drama buuuut I think it's to get it moved.

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting a s h l e y.:</b>" I voted for it to go to TDC because it doesn't belong in AS."</blockquote> Excellent I thought that was the plan."


Noone has gotten ugly. Even though it would probably be deserved.

Rob's Living Dead Girl Royersford, Pennsylvania 3256 posts
25th Feb '13

I think it was wrong of her to do something like that against his wishes.

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
25th Feb '13

Both parties are idiots in that situation IMO. Hopefully the dumbasses don't bring a child into the world.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
25th Feb '13

I would want to enjoy my pregnancy with my partner. Not have that over my head

Jessicalane19 Due October 1; Japan 12 posts
25th Feb '13

I'm an abortion survivor I was just giving a second person version to not get attacked nvm

Stfu Squirrel District of Columbia 8554 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Jessicalane19:" I'm an abortion survivor I was just giving a second person version to not get attacked nvm"


Nobody attacked you, this got sent to TDC because it wasn't appropriate for the forum you posted it in. AS is for direct support, not hypothetical moral/ethical discussions. If you had posted in D&D or something, it would have been fine.