Jessicalane19 Due October 1; Japan 12 posts
25th Feb '13

Yea I was talking about post abortion feelings really. That's not up for debate but more asking are these feelings normal but whatever you guys are dumbasses

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
25th Feb '13

They are both wrong IMO. The girl shouldn't have lied and the guy should have wrapped his shit. That "relationship/train wreck" is doomed and they both need a foot up their asses. She needs to suck it up and deal with the choices she made for both of them. He needs to stop being a schmuck and be responsible for his own BC if he doesn't want kids. Idiots.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103331 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" Yea I was talking about post abortion feelings really. That's not up for debate but more asking are these feelings normal but whatever you guys are dumbasses"</blockquote>




What? No you weren't.



Your post was asking if you had a right to be mad. You don't, because you tricked him into getting you regnant. You didn't have to get the abortion, and i'm sorry you're upset that you did. However he is completely justified in feeling the way he felt. I'm sure now you feel the same way he did when you told him you were regnant because you lied.

Stfu Squirrel District of Columbia 8554 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Jessicalane19:" Yea I was talking about post abortion feelings really. That's not up for debate but more asking are these feelings normal but whatever you guys are dumbasses"


Ok, well then make a new post that says something like,



"I got an abortion and I have bad feelings about that because I wanted the baby even though my SO didn't, and now I'm mad at him even though I know I shouldn't have lied and I regret that too. Does anyone understand where I'm coming from?"



and you will get loads of support because LOTS of women have been there.



Or, hey, you could just get super-defensive, call everyone a dumbass, and keep your shit festering in a really unhealthy way. Your choice.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" Yea I was talking about post abortion feelings really. That's not up for debate but more asking are these feelings normal but whatever you guys are dumbasses"</blockquote>




You have got to be joking



You are not the only one in this thread who had an abortion.



If you were direct and to the point with what advice you wanted you would have received it.



I have always found the ladies on here helpful and supportive.

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting Jessicalane19:" Yea I was talking about post abortion feelings really. That's not up for debate but more asking are these feelings normal but whatever you guys are dumbasses"


Yeah, I'm sorry you're hurting and coping with your abortion is hard.



But you are still a dumbass for putting yourself in that situation,

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" Yea I was talking about post abortion feelings ... [snip!] ... in feeling the way he felt. I'm sure now you feel the same way he did when you told him you were regnant because you lied."</blockquote>




She has a right to be mad at herself. She put herself through it purposefully.



It's almost as bad as the time that teen got pregnant to piss off her parents.

3 kids; Intercourse, MD, United States 4616 posts
25th Feb '13
Quoting 3 little monsters:" They are both wrong IMO. The girl shouldn't have lied and the guy should have wrapped his shit. That ... [snip!] ... she made for both of them. He needs to stop being a schmuck and be responsible for his own BC if he doesn't want kids. Idiots."



I'm sorry...so a guy shouldn't be able to trust the woman he's choosing to have a relationship with when she says she is on birth control? That's ridiculous. The cornerstones in any relationship is trust and faith. He shouldn't have to cover his tracks because his SO is deceitful.



If a woman was trapped by her husband, who poked holes in the condoms, everyone would be saying "Get rid of the baby if you don't want it! He was so wrong!" not "You should have been on the pill if you didn't want to get pregnant." To his knowledge they were using a reliable form of birth control.

Jessicalane19 Due October 1; Japan 12 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" Yea I was talking about post abortion feelings ... [snip!] ... in feeling the way he felt. I'm sure now you feel the same way he did when you told him you were regnant because you lied."</blockquote>




Anger is a feeling I'm dealing with with him along with resentment. Those are feelings I'm dealing with having to do with rthe abortion. I didn't go direct because I knew there would be judge mental people like you.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103331 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" ... [snip!] ... dealing with having to do with rthe abortion. I didn't go direct because I knew there would be judge mental people like you."</blockquote>




Judge mental because i agree with him and not you? Okay

Jessicalane19 Due October 1; Japan 12 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey ... [snip!] ... there would be judge mental people like you."</blockquote> Judge mental because i agree with him and not you? Okay"</blockquote>




Yea and I definitely didn't come to argue on you being judge mental. Even though yes you are judgemental and this is why because I knew you'd attack and that's why I made it in second person.



Fact is I was talking about my feelings and you wanted to attack so you guys agreed to put it in Tdc. f**k you.

Jessicalane19 Due October 1; Japan 12 posts
25th Feb '13

You're all ignored bye.

Jessicalane19 Due October 1; Japan 12 posts
25th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ღFrodoliciousღ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey ... [snip!] ... No... It's in TDC because it didn't belong in AS the way you had it worded. It was more of a D&D topic."</blockquote>




I posted it again and it's in the as section also I delete my post. So you have nothing you can bash me about

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
26th Feb '13

Shit. Who knew deleting posts wiped memories

Kyan&Nate Due February 25; 1 child; Australia 142 posts
26th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" Shit. Who knew deleting posts wiped memories"</blockquote>




Lol.