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Just found out im pregnant at the start of my degree? Really Ava-Rose Due December 9; Japan 4 posts
26th Feb '13

Hello
Im 17 and have just started a from home degree in Law which is going to take me 4-5 years, its part time so works out to be about 4 hours a day and was going to get a job as well to do in the day.
Anyway I have just found out Im pregnant, im 17 and my boyfriend is 22 (not ilegal in my country) We got together a week after my 16th birthday, I met him as he was at uni in my home town but he finished last year and moved back to his original home town which is about a 4 hour drive from me so hardly ever see eachother (a few times a month) anyway ive just found out im 3 months pregnant (was on the pill) took several tests (the ones that tell you how far along you are) and they all say positive 3 months. I do not know what to do at all. I haven't told him because Im just so confused. I live at home with my mum and my 4 brothers in a 3 bedroomed house. I have my own room but my 3 brothers share and my mum and dad sleep in the other room with my youngest 1 year old brother so as you imagine its pretty cramped, Im already sat here worrying about how il move out (i have anxiety and OCD so i worry alot) im sat here worrying about how i will be able to afford to move out and if il even get a job after uni and all this worry is filling my head to the point where I cant take it anymore. Im so stressed out that my hair is literally falling out.
We had a pregnancy scare about a year ago (i wasn't pregnant) and he told me that he didn't want a child till we where married and had our own house etc etc as his family is really religious. He has a job at the moment but i dont think its enough for him to be able to get a mortgage pay the bills etc (he still lives with his mum) like what will happen? where will i go? what will happen about my degree? im just so so scared about everything i really don't know what to do, but i also feel if i dont have this baby then he might end up leaving me for someone older that he can move in with have a baby with sooner than me, im just so scard please help

Ashlee♥ 3 kids; Puyallup, WA, United States 68173 posts
26th Feb '13

The 3 on the test means 3 weeks past ovulation, not three months.



I'd be telling your boyfriend so you two can come up with a plan.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
26th Feb '13

The digital tests only tell you up to three weeks. They just say 3+ if your past three weeks.

Ava-Rose Due December 9; Japan 4 posts
26th Feb '13

It said 12 weeks so i ammounted that to 3 months

♥. 2 kids; making moves in, TX, United States 1114 posts
26th Feb '13
Quoting Ashlee♥:" The 3 on the test means 3 weeks past ovulation, not three months. I'd be telling your boyfriend so you two can come up with a plan."


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lol. :lol:

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
26th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ava-Rose:</b>" It said 12 weeks so i ammounted that to 3 months"</blockquote>




There is no such thing as a test that would say your 12 weeks pregnant...

I&E's Mama Due December 23; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Greensboro, NC, United States 6048 posts
26th Feb '13

This is silly.

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
26th Feb '13

You can get a Law degree from home!?
And at 17??

Ava-Rose Due December 9; Japan 4 posts
26th Feb '13

clear blue

Ava-Rose Due December 9; Japan 4 posts
26th Feb '13

Yes its called open university in uk but it was only because i got all a or b's on my gcse's so i got fast tracked

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
26th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ava-Rose:</b>" clear blue"</blockquote>




Clear blue only says up to 3 weeks. After three weeks it just says three plus so obviously you didn't take a clear blue test.

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5798 posts
26th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I&E's Mama:</b>" This is silly."</blockquote>




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PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
26th Feb '13
Quoting Ava-Rose:" It said 12 weeks so i ammounted that to 3 months"


Those will only tell you one of 4 answers:



Not pregnant
1-2
2-3
3+



They don't say 12.

Aria Dawn's mommy 33 kids; Texas 1864 posts
26th Feb '13

Busted.



Ten mo' fuckin characters

kentucky momma 19 kids; Corbin, Kentucky 176 posts
26th Feb '13

she just became a member today, her about me section says shes 16 but her profile says shes 18 and on her post she says 17...Im lost lol but ive NEVER heard of a pregnancy test telling you how far along you are