Im 17 and have just started a from home degree in Law which is going to take me 4-5 years, its part time so works out to be about 4 hours a day and was going to get a job as well to do in the day.
Anyway I have just found out Im pregnant, im 17 and my boyfriend is 22 (not ilegal in my country) We got together a week after my 16th birthday, I met him as he was at uni in my home town but he finished last year and moved back to his original home town which is about a 4 hour drive from me so hardly ever see eachother (a few times a month) anyway ive just found out im 3 months pregnant (was on the pill) took several tests (the ones that tell you how far along you are) and they all say positive 3 months. I do not know what to do at all. I haven't told him because Im just so confused. I live at home with my mum and my 4 brothers in a 3 bedroomed house. I have my own room but my 3 brothers share and my mum and dad sleep in the other room with my youngest 1 year old brother so as you imagine its pretty cramped, Im already sat here worrying about how il move out (i have anxiety and OCD so i worry alot) im sat here worrying about how i will be able to afford to move out and if il even get a job after uni and all this worry is filling my head to the point where I cant take it anymore. Im so stressed out that my hair is literally falling out.
We had a pregnancy scare about a year ago (i wasn't pregnant) and he told me that he didn't want a child till we where married and had our own house etc etc as his family is really religious. He has a job at the moment but i dont think its enough for him to be able to get a mortgage pay the bills etc (he still lives with his mum) like what will happen? where will i go? what will happen about my degree? im just so so scared about everything i really don't know what to do, but i also feel if i dont have this baby then he might end up leaving me for someone older that he can move in with have a baby with sooner than me, im just so scard please help
The 3 on the test means 3 weeks past ovulation, not three months.
I'd be telling your boyfriend so you two can come up with a plan.
The digital tests only tell you up to three weeks. They just say 3+ if your past three weeks.
It said 12 weeks so i ammounted that to 3 months
Quoting Ashlee♥:" The 3 on the test means 3 weeks past ovulation, not three months. I'd be telling your boyfriend so you two can come up with a plan."
<blockquote><b>Quoting Ava-Rose:</b>" It said 12 weeks so i ammounted that to 3 months"</blockquote>
There is no such thing as a test that would say your 12 weeks pregnant...
This is silly.
You can get a Law degree from home!?
And at 17??
Yes its called open university in uk but it was only because i got all a or b's on my gcse's so i got fast tracked
<blockquote><b>Quoting Ava-Rose:</b>" clear blue"</blockquote>
Clear blue only says up to 3 weeks. After three weeks it just says three plus so obviously you didn't take a clear blue test.
<blockquote><b>Quoting I&E's Mama:</b>" This is silly."</blockquote>
Quoting Ava-Rose:" It said 12 weeks so i ammounted that to 3 months"
Those will only tell you one of 4 answers:
They don't say 12.
Ten mo' fuckin characters