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Secret Service Texas 723 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Pusherman:" It doesn't matter. She wants to get an abortion. Read the title of the thread."


I know and what ever she chooses is up to her. Just wondered how she felt about that.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Robert Downey Jr.:" :!: And how hard would that be? Yeah, here's my kid mom. Raise it. But I'm 14 so I will have to see the kid daily."


Stupid naive people like that dont realize how hard it would be. They just know they are saving a "life". But what they dont know is they are ruining one also.

Secret Service Texas 723 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" Im not trying to go against you having ... [snip!] ... but, if your mom was willling to adopt would you be completely against it?"</blockquote> Abortion survivors forum"


yep, Im aware.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Oceanside, CA, United States 112296 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" I know and what ever she chooses is up to her. Just wondered how she felt about that."


Well if you read the OP you would know how she felt and how the question you asked was unnecessary.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" I know and what ever she chooses is up to her. Just wondered how she felt about that."


She wants an abortion because she doesnt wnat to be pregnant. She didnt ask about adoption, she said that she wanted an abortion because she wanted to finish school and get married and all that fun stuff.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robert Downey Jr.:</b>" :!: And how hard would that be? Yeah, here's my kid mom. Raise it. But I'm 14 so I will have to see the kid daily."</blockquote>




What 14 yr old wants to deal with pregnancy anyway? Getting fat, stretch marks, being uncomfy, not being able to hang out with friends,siding out on teen fun, squeezing a watermelon out a hole the size of a key lime. No thank you. Not at 14! Screw that. Plus all the other mess that goes with pregnancy! I enjoyed it but, I was 29 and got to do all the fun stuff first. Being sick and puking non stop was a pain but I wanted to be a mom.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
27th Feb '13

I'm kind of worried that maybe her mother walked in on her using this website and is reading everything.



Are kids in school today?

Secret Service Texas 723 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Robert Downey Jr.:" :!: And how hard would that be? Yeah, here's my kid mom. Raise it. But I'm 14 so I will have to see the kid daily."


That not how it was supposed to be taken. Like lets just say your mother wanted another baby but couldn't herself. I was just trying to suggest and see that maybe if her mom actually wanted another child.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" That not how it was supposed to be taken. Like lets just say your mother wanted another baby but couldn't ... [snip!] ... another baby but couldn't herself. I was just trying to suggest and see that maybe if her mom actually wanted another child."


Then that's called surrogacy and OP shouldn't be subjected to become a surrogate for her mother when she doesn't want to be pregnant to begin with.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Pusherman:</b>" I'm kind of worried that maybe her mother walked in on her using this website and is reading everything. Are kids in school today?"</blockquote>




She may have had a snow day but if she is at school, she may be in class while on.

Secret Service Texas 723 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Stupid naive people like that dont realize how hard it would be. They just know they are saving a "life". But what they dont know is they are ruining one also. "


Im far from naive. I didnt read the whole form so I don't know her reasons.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robert Downey Jr.:</b>" :!: And how hard would that be? ... [snip!] ... it but, I was 29 and got to do all the fun stuff first. Being sick and puking non stop was a pain but I wanted to be a mom."


I had a hard enough time with all of that when i was 18/19! Let alone someone THAT young!!



OP, I would start going through that list that someone posted and reach out. Don't be afraid to "make your mom mad"... It's your body and your decision.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Pusherman:" Then that's called surrogacy and OP shouldn't be subjected to become a surrogate for her mother when she doesn't want to be pregnant to begin with."

!! seriously.



Its not HER job. If her mom wants another baby she can adopt another child, not her grandchild.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Pusherman:" I'm kind of worried that maybe her mother walked in on her using this website and is reading everything. Are kids in school today?"


She lives in Wisconsin. Lol. So a snow day isn't out of the question.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" Im far from naive. I didnt read the whole form so I don't know her reasons. "


Well you are naive if you are asking her if she could do that. When this is in AS.