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wut Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

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*B & D Mommy* 2 kids; Illinois 15809 posts
27th Feb '13

Lol! I have no clue what I would do.

Secret Service Texas 723 posts
27th Feb '13

why does it make you cry?

GL♣PC♥BC Due May 5; 2 kids; Atlanta, GA, United States 9395 posts
27th Feb '13

Ehh I was seeing a guy who was absolutely amazing BUT had a very, very small p***s.. I knew I couldn't marry him because of that. Shallow or not, I just couldn't.



If its just the actual sex that's bad that could change over time though.. It's still new.. Maybe your bodies will get Insync after you get to know each other more?

Mason&Chloe'sMama Due April 20; 1 child; Kansas 522 posts
27th Feb '13

IMO, sex is a huge factor. Us women need to be pleased too! Lol

*B & D Mommy* 2 kids; Illinois 15809 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" why does it make you cry?"


I'm assuming because he seems so great in every other way and lacks a ton in that area. I would cry too



OP is he good at other things?

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
27th Feb '13

How many times have you had sex? Sometimes it just takes getting to know someone... but if it's legit bad... that's rough and I'm sorry. :( <3

*B & D Mommy* 2 kids; Illinois 15809 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting The Doctor:" How many times have you had sex? Sometimes it just takes getting to know someone... but if it's legit bad... that's rough and I'm sorry. :( <3"


That is true!

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
27th Feb '13

sex is part of a relationship, if you aren't happy in the bedroom you won't be happy outside there either. You'll be finding a way to fulfill the need you are urging for. I wouldn't date someone whom I didn't connect with in the bedroom. I've been there and thought I'd try and i was miserable.

♥. 2 kids; making moves in, TX, United States 1114 posts
27th Feb '13

Being intimate is a big part of a relationship , so I would call it quits :/



Ewww.

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
27th Feb '13

I personally couldn't. I mean if it was a decent size and he was just bad at it then there's ways room for improvement. But if its little and it sucks that much then no I would walk away. Sex is a big factor for me.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" why does it make you cry?"</blockquote>




That's the thing.... Idk!!! The first tine we did it, I literally busted out crying, I tried to cover it up but I know he saw the tears can. use he kept askin..... I know I have issues with bodily fluid lol n he sweats alot it just n made me feel really dirty..

BabyJsMama 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Thailand 4358 posts
27th Feb '13

If the sex was so bad that I felt awful afterward and cried about it I would not further the relationship. No matter how nice a guy he is I need to feel good too, sorry.

SaucyPoppet Due July 10; 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
27th Feb '13

Yikes... I am having problems because I married a guy because he was great in every other dept but horrible kissing and in bed...and it is still causing problems for me. I try to hide it but I'm not happy a lot of the time. And yours sounds way worse than mine LOL I would say, no its not shallow, sex is a part of happiness for most people, and unfortunately, you can't sacrifice it..i thought i could but it was more important than I thought.

Secret Service Texas 723 posts
27th Feb '13

eh, well doesnt this just suck. I would maybe give it a few more rounds and this time tell him what to do. IMO sex gets better the more comfortable you are with the person.