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Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *B & D Mommy*:</b>" I'm assuming because he seems so great in every other way and lacks a ton in that area. I would cry too OP is he good at other things? "</blockquote>




He.is!!! Hard working, caring, cute, marriage minded, loving.... Everything I want right now n more. But I can't get off on the sex. I hate how he eats me out I hate how he kisses I just.... Ew loll it makes me feel gross

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59959 posts
27th Feb '13

How about.... shower sex? :lol:

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

Lol ok at least i'm not being super shallow!!! I just don't see us being happy thru my Childs bearing years if I don't wanna go thru the process!!! Good sex is important n I could teach him of it wasn't so little

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" How about.... shower sex? :lol:"</blockquote>




I think it would slip out??....unless i'm extra bent I guess. I'll try it when w go out of town next week lol. Thnx

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
27th Feb '13

I have totally cried after disappointing sex LOL You can't help it, you get lots of hormones and things building up in your body and if those aren't released they come out in other ways..I get a wicked bad headache and I cry LOL



Is he over weight or just a heavy sweater? Maybe try to get him to do it with a undershirt on to make it less gross or in the shower like she suggested but yeh if he's also bad at the foreplay and kissing, chances are you won't be able to manage it :( I'm so sorry...I know how frustrating it can be :(

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting SaucyPoppet:</b>" Yikes... I am having problems because I married a guy because he was great in every other dept but horrible ... [snip!] ... for most people, and unfortunately, you can't sacrifice it..i thought i could but it was more important than I thought."</blockquote>




I'm scared of that!!! What if we get married n I have to fake it every time forever?

Charissa Jo Bunch Due May 4 (boy); 1 child; Vermont 26 posts
27th Feb '13

A small penis can be gotten over if he makes up for it by being extra attentive to you and I kind of like it when a man sweats during sex cause it mans he's working not just sitting there waiting for you to do all the work, but if it makes you feel dirty maybe it's your subconscious telling you something is off or wrong with this guy.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting SaucyPoppet:</b>" I have totally cried after disappointing sex LOL You can't help it, you get lots of hormones and things ... [snip!] ... at the foreplay and kissing, chances are you won't be able to manage it :( I'm so sorry...I know how frustrating it can be :("</blockquote>




He's a little overweight, but I never noticed until the sweating thing in the bed. He sweats alot in general actually. The second time he had a short on and still managed to sweat thru that lol. It's not y yucky salty sweat but it's still sweat!

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 22072 posts
status 27th Feb '13

This makes me sad for my nephew. He's a great guy but DH told me that he had a problem when he was a baby, with his penis, and that it's super small. He has a lot of problems, especially meeting girls and I always wonder if it has to do with his self esteem. Poor guy's only had like maybe 2 or 3 girl friends, not long term, and he's 23.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Colt's mommy:</b>" This makes me sad for my nephew. He's a great guy but DH told me that he had a problem when he was a ... [snip!] ... wonder if it has to do with his self esteem. Poor guy's only had like maybe 2 or 3 girl friends, not long term, and he's 23. "</blockquote>




Oh wow! That sucks :-( I would hate to b a guy lol too many things u can't control

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
27th Feb '13

I've been with a few smaller guys who could work that sheit no problem, honestly. It IS possible. But you have to have the skills lol



My poor guy is about average, which there's at least that...but literally 99% of the time he has to finish me off afterwards with his fingers :( And I feel horrible about it but he doesnt seem too hurt by it thankfully. And even then, just barely. He has a tendency to be very.fucking.slow.and.gentle. it drags it out and drives me crazy, sometimes even if i do finish i still have a headache from trying to force it. even when I try to tell him or show him he just doesnt get it :(

Karren 1 child; Liverpool, United Kingdom 378 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting SaucyPoppet:" I've been with a few smaller guys who could work that sheit no problem, honestly. It IS possible. But ... [snip!] ... i do finish i still have a headache from trying to force it. even when I try to tell him or show him he just doesnt get it :("


That sounds bad, how long have you been married?

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
27th Feb '13

Living together two years, we were married shortly after we moved in together. We've been together 4 years now I think.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting SaucyPoppet:" I've been with a few smaller guys who could work that sheit no problem, honestly. It IS possible. But ... [snip!] ... i do finish i still have a headache from trying to force it. even when I try to tell him or show him he just doesnt get it :("


that would bother the hell out of me lol i dont like when ppl dont follow instructions lol.... but hey if it works for yall then maybe i could work it out. last night wasnt so bad

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
28th Feb '13

we did it again last night. and he bought this vibrating thingie from the store when we bought condoms... it was much better, anddddd i didnt get sweat in my face lol. i think maybe i will loosen up and see if i can enjoy it better, but if this is as good as it gets, fuckit lol we cant get no further



thanks ladies for the advice btw