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user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting bbbt:" You're right. Some rapists even admit to not being attracted to women at all. "


like wtf?! makes no sense. i guess people are just fucking sick

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5821 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting I love Kenzi:" i dont know i guess i thought it was different at a bar than walking on the street i guess. i mean its all fucked up regardless and no man should ever do that to a woman. "

So true.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting I love Kenzi:" wow im sorry i had no idea. idk i guess bc i have never had that kind of problem i didnt think i had to worry. "


Anyone can be raped, men included. Rapists have a psychological problem, it isn't caused by sexual frustration or lust.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
27th Feb '13

well thanks for educating me i came off as a mega idiot

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
27th Feb '13

well i hope all goes well with the op tomorrow.

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
27th Feb '13

Thank you to everyone. I honestly wound have never contemplated reporting it without yall. I'm sure ill be PMing yall...I know my brother is always there for me but it's hard to talk about this with him. It makes him cry or he gets really mad, not at me but that this happened.



Another thing that scares me is that the guy knew where I lived. He dropped me off in my apartment complex on the cement in front of my apartment. What if he comes back?

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5821 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" Thank you to everyone. I honestly wound have never contemplated reporting it without yall. I'm sure ill ... [snip!] ... knew where I lived. He dropped me off in my apartment complex on the cement in front of my apartment. What if he comes back?"


Are you sure you didn't know him personally then?

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" Thank you to everyone. I honestly wound have never contemplated reporting it without yall. I'm sure ill ... [snip!] ... knew where I lived. He dropped me off in my apartment complex on the cement in front of my apartment. What if he comes back?"

Thats exactly why you want to report it. Also have your locks changed.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" Thank you to everyone. I honestly wound have never contemplated reporting it without yall. I'm sure ill ... [snip!] ... knew where I lived. He dropped me off in my apartment complex on the cement in front of my apartment. What if he comes back?"


Another reason you need to report it, and hun, it sounds like it was probably someone you know or else he wouldn't have known where to drop you off. I know that's scary, but just be prepared that it might not be a shady stranger.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Jennybananna:" Thats exactly why you want to report it. Also have your locks changed."


:!: he could have got your adress from your id or something.

Mrs.O! 18 kids; your moms ass, HI, United States 21715 posts
27th Feb '13

I'm so sorry that you have to relive this whole situation all because the asshole couldn't even have enough decency to use a damn condom!...



I'd get the abortion, get to counseling and move on as much as you can and know that none of this is your fault. Have you filed a police report? if the jackass is dumb enough to do it again they might be able to get him.

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" Are you sure you didn't know him personally then?"</blockquote>




I don't think so. I can't think of any white, blonde guy that would know where I lived.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
27th Feb '13
Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" Are you sure you didn't know ... [snip!] ... personally then?"</blockquote> I don't think so. I can't think of any white, blonde guy that would know where I lived."


would he have been able to have access to your id? he could have even asked one of your friends saying you were sick.

Peyton'sMommy♥ 1 child; Springfield, Ohio 16811 posts
27th Feb '13

After reading that he may know where you live you need to report it ASAP. I would not feel comfortable knowing that you have no protection or anything, is there anyone you could stay with until you get the report filed, locks changed, etc? I would just be creeped out knowing he left you in front of you house.... OP I am so sorry you have to go through that. Make sure you get tested for STD's and like everyone else said ask for a DNA sample after you get the abortion.



I don't know where you live but I was looking up some information and found this: http://www.911rape.org/getting-help/making-a-police-report/making-a-delayed-report. There is a lot more info on it as well.



http://www.rainn.org/get-helpFound this as well it is a link to the national center which can help you find help locally.

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
27th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Peyton'sMommy♥:</b>" After reading that he may know where you live you need to report it ASAP. I would not feel comfortable ... [snip!] ... http://www.rainn.org/get-helpFound this as well it is a link to the national center which can help you find help locally."</blockquote>




Thank you very much!