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I hate when GIRLS w.o kids bash on moms with kids HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
28th Feb '13

If you can't support a baby, either physically or emotionally, why have them? Don't complain on public domain about how crappy it is to have a child. Calling them 'brat' or 'pain in ass' is innaproroate. They're something you wanted, obviously, and YOURS.



(post on facebook)




to me. brat is a term of endearment... and kids are pains in the ass at some point in their lives. but i don't see how a person without a child can make such a stupid comment. oh i know. because raising children are just sunshines and lolipops from what your dumbass sees at the movies right??



its probably just me. but it irritated me to see this.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
28th Feb '13

I agree 100% with what they said.



I don't think "brat" is a generally positive term.

MamaDSx2&SDD Due July 8; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Monroe, Michigan 10013 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting HUgabearrr:" If you can't support a baby, either physically or emotionally, why have them? Don't complain on public ... [snip!] ... and lolipops from what your dumbass sees at the movies right?? its probably just me. but it irritated me to see this."


i must be horrible then.
I always call my kids brat and he knows he's a brat but he also knows i don't call him a brat in a mean way. He's also a pain in the ass, do i say that to him? Of course not! But i tell other people he can be a PITA haha



Raising kids is hard and we sometimes get frustrated and vent how we think will help! Doesn't mean we don't love our children

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
28th Feb '13

i think dd can be an annoying little demon child but guess what she is my little demon child for good or bad and i love her with all my heart

HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting I love Kenzi:" i think dd can be an annoying little demon child but guess what she is my little demon child for good or bad and i love her with all my heart"


exactly my point...she posted this based on a post i wrote saying "little brat got a new sesame street toy box because it was the last one on the shelf. Mommy never gets the last Louis Vuitton on the shelf"..

HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
28th Feb '13

and yeah. OF COURSE i never call DS a brat or anything like that. i just vent about it on facebook.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting HUgabearrr:" and yeah. OF COURSE i never call DS a brat or anything like that. i just vent about it on facebook."


i try not too bc i kind of use it as a memory book so i can go back and look things up but i understand

lady face 3 kids; Baltimore, Maryland 992 posts
28th Feb '13

My therapist said the most true and amazing thing at our last session. "I was the best parent before I had children". Ignore her... she will learn how challenging motherhood can be when she has children.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
28th Feb '13

I see posts all the time on here with women saying the most unimaginable things about thier kids..but everyone defends it as 'just a vent' etc.



It sickens me. I have a 3 yr old and anther on the way, I would never ever ever ever talk about my kids like that. They are never a pain in my ass, or a brat and anything but the sunshine and lollipops in my life.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" I see posts all the time on here with women saying the most unimaginable things about thier kids..but ... [snip!] ... about my kids like that. They are never a pain in my ass, or a brat and anything but the sunshine and lollipops in my life. "


Don't forget their husbands.....yet they won't ever consider leaving.

HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting lady face:" My therapist said the most true and amazing thing at our last session. "I was the best parent before ... [snip!] ... the best parent before I had children". Ignore her... she will learn how challenging motherhood can be when she has children."


she cant...from her fb she vents about being infertile all the time. so its probably her jealousy and anger. i see where its coming from but why talk about babies and children when she has not the slightest idea what its like to raise one.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting HUgabearrr:" she cant...from her fb she vents about being infertile all the time. so its probably her jealousy ... [snip!] ... where its coming from but why talk about babies and children when she has not the slightest idea what its like to raise one."


She's not talking about babies and children, she's saying not to go complaining about your kids all the time on facebook.

HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" She's not talking about babies and children, she's saying not to go complaining about your kids all the time on facebook. "


maybe i should explain a little lol.
she complains about everrrrrryones post on fb. like if someone has a pic on fb of their son or daughter she posts saying stop posting pictures of their kids because it offends her.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting HUgabearrr:" maybe i should explain a little lol. she complains about everrrrrryones post on fb. like if someone ... [snip!] ... someone has a pic on fb of their son or daughter she posts saying stop posting pictures of their kids because it offends her."


You have only posted on exact status from her facebook though, and I don't see anything wrong with the post.

HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" You have only posted on exact status from her facebook though, and I don't see anything wrong with the post. "


i know. but theres more to it.
not so much irritated by that status itself. mainly the fact that she constantly bashes people with kids.