SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
1st Mar '13

Here you go hun -
http://members.baby-gaga.com/member5



That is totally deplorable what they did >.< I hope she bans the shit out of them. I am so sorry you've had to go through this. The thought that I could be carrying my rapist's baby to term destroyed me every single day. I was never able to enjoy a single moment of my pregnancy and I had severe PPD afterwards until the Paternity test came back, they had to medicate me. It is NOT healthy for some people to go through that, and those people know who they are and they do what they need to do for themselves and their family. If I hadn't been in a relationship at the time, I would've had the abortion just for my own sanity. But there was a 50% chance it was my boyfriend's child so I couldn't bring myself to do it :(
It's 13 years later, and I am 5 months pregnant with my husband's child. I STILL am not excited, I still haven't grasped that I am pregnant, I know it's because of what I went through before and I hate it. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy >.<

isaac'smommy2013 17 kids; Minden City, Michigan 51 posts
1st Mar '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Missy Anne:</b>" well im glad she picked one but until she had ... [snip!] ... right? And in no way am i demeaning the pain of miscarriage, it's a horrible pain no one should feel. Just merely curious."


i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, to me my miscarriage was horrible, i did nothing but sleep and cry for awhile, and if i were to loose my son i would feel the same way, the only difference would be that i had the joy of holding and caring for my son, where i didnt get that chance with my 1st baby




and this isnt directed at you, just a general question, how is a miscarriage the death of a baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????

Mrs.Dani Due July 3; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Oxnard, California 10272 posts
1st Mar '13
Quoting isaac'smommy2013:" i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, ... [snip!] ... baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????"


I see a miscarriage and an abortion both cells. And I have had 2 miscarriages. They WOULD have become babies, but they were not babies at that time.

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
1st Mar '13

*sarcastic tone* I really love how it seems a lot of pro life people seem to assume that woman who decide that abortion is their best/only choice just do it and have no feelings about the issue what so ever.
They aren't emotionless monsters, it effects them a great deal, a lot of them require therapy afterwards. It is NOT an easy decision to make and it DOES effect the woman a lot.
I personally have not had one, but I have worked with survivors and had friends who have been in positions where for them, it was the only option. It is NOT simple, it is NOT easy and it is NOT done without a lot of consideration, debating and downright hating yourself at some point.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62683 posts
status 1st Mar '13
Quoting SaucyPoppet:" *sarcastic tone* I really love how it seems a lot of pro life people seem to assume that woman who decide ... [snip!] ... simple, it is NOT easy and it is NOT done without a lot of consideration, debating and downright hating yourself at some point."


Thank you <3

JKBC♡ 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 9188 posts
status 1st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting isaac'smommy2013:</b>" i do agree with her, hence why im reading this :) abortion is murder plain and simple, by the time you even find out your pregnant the baby has a beating heart "</blockquote>




Not true, I found out when I was 3 or 4 weeks, had an ultrasound, guess what, saw only a yolk sac and it DID NOT, repeat DID NOT have a heartbeat but guess what, I was pregnant! :shock: Shocking isn't it!?

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
1st Mar '13
Quoting isaac'smommy2013:" i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, ... [snip!] ... baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????"

Abortion or miscarriage...it didn't matter to me. Both are the end of pregnancy.

JKBC♡ 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 9188 posts
status 1st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:</b>" Okay I know that this thread is over but i just wanted to say something. I recently posted in the abortion ... [snip!] ... but the abortion survivors forum is not the f**king place to get on your high horse talking about how someone is killing a baby"</blockquote>




I am so sorry those pathetic a*****es messaged you. :( How completely arrogant and ignorant of them, god forbid should they ever go through what you did, guaranteed their asses will rethink what they spewed out of their disgusting mouths.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
1st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting isaac'smommy2013:</b>" i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, ... [snip!] ... baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????"</blockquote>




They're both cells.
One is cells you want and hope to grow into a baby. One is cells you want nothing to do with, so you get rid of them. Simple.

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
1st Mar '13
Quoting J+K=Bri+? :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting isaac'smommy2013:</b>" i do agree with her, hence why im ... [snip!] ... only a yolk sac and it DID NOT, repeat DID NOT have a heartbeat but guess what, I was pregnant! :shock: Shocking isn't it!?"


I found out at like, one week LOL No heartbeat forever

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
1st Mar '13

Exactly! But they don't see it that way, because only the fetus' life is important to them.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
2nd Mar '13

I don't believe in abortion for myself although I had one when I was around 19. The babies Dad and I were no longer together, some really bad things went down between me and his family. I found out I was pregnant two weeks after we broke up. I was about 6 weeks along. I just couldn't go through with the pregnancy knowing it was going to tie me to that family for at least 18 years.
I would never have another one but I will not tell other women what to do with their bodies. Not only would that make me a hypocrite but who the hell am I to say what you are allowed and not allowed to do?
The only thing that pisses me off is people who use it for birth control. My SIL seems to get pregnant by every loser she meets and instead of getting on some form of birth control she just gets abortions. She has had at least 5 that I know of.

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
2nd Mar '13

Ugh we can only hope it makes her sterile soon :-\ Why does it seem like the ones who don't want/need kids are the ones who have no problem popping em out like bunnies? And where the hell does she get the money? They are like 300-600 bucks LOL Tell her to take the pill for a fraction of that and she can party more ;)