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Juni&Janel's Mommy 2 kids; Ventura, California 32 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" You had your first baby when you were 16 and he's three years old now. So that would mean you are 19, not 21. "


I got pregnant at 16 a month before my 17 birthday and had my son a couple of weeks before I turned 18 and im about to turn 21 so Im rite there.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting my awesome boys:" yeah, she may be upset with that then.....I know I would be if my child was having there second baby and weren't living on their own...."


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user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting Regina George ♡:" She had her 1st at 17 "


Okay if she was 16 or 17 she would be 19 or 20.. still not 21. Not that it really matters.



OP I would probably just tell them. And make sure you have a game plan for living in your home since you are a grown up with a SO and one kid already, and probably have a pretty good reaction to what her response will be.

Sonia Blade† Due January 27; 3 kids; Rochester, New York 16566 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" Lol. That's what I've been telling myself. That Im a grown woman and have done so well =) The only ... [snip!] ... why I think Im scared is because I'm currently at their house because we are trying to save some money for a place so yeaa lol"</blockquote>




You conceived while living there? Well you have to tell them and I wouldn't be surprised if they get mad. You really need to show them you're mature and get out of there ASAP

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" You had your first baby when you were 16 and he's three years old now. So that would mean you are 19, not 21. "



Yea I was so lost

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting Sonia Blade
Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting Mommy&Babyy:" I got pregnant at 16 a month before my 17 birthday and had my son a couple of weeks before I turned 18 and im about to turn 21 so Im rite there. "


ahh

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Feb '13

you still live w/ them? Damn

Juni&Janel's Mommy 2 kids; Ventura, California 32 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" Are you going to be there when you have the baby?"

No, I wont be here when I have the baby. I will be at my own place. We had our own place for about a year but it was really expensive and we didnt save much money so we decided that I would stay at my parents house for a lil and he would stay at his parents so we can save money to put a deposite down for our new place.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" I am currently pregnant with baby #2 and I have a 3 yr old lil boy. When I told my parents that I was ... [snip!] ... guess Im just scared. How did you ladies tell your parents that you are pregnant again?? I would really appriciate advice =)"</blockquote>




Well, my situation was very different. I had been they college, married several years and was stable. However, I had young twin girls. They were 18 months old when I announced my pregnancy. I thought that our parents were going to be very judgmental asking what I was thinking blah blah. That year, my grandmother passed away followed by my grandfather 10 days later (moms mom and dads dad) and my sister got married. So, at thanksgiving it was my turn to give a toast and I said how it had been a hard year for our family loosing the last grandparents but what a blessing it was to have gained a new brother in law and that we were thankful our entire family was with us the day we were able to share that our family was going to grow by two new feet. I think that it being a holiday, the entire family together, remembering what blessings we had in life and the precious gifts we were given helped. We weren't trying. I lost a baby that July and it took so many years to get pregnant in the first place with the girls we figured lighting wouldn't strike twice. Well, my son is 2 1/2. Lol




My suggestion is to save the announcement for Easter. Do it when they are feeling especially accepting. Then they can talk about the two kids at the next Easter ect.....

Juni&Janel's Mommy 2 kids; Ventura, California 32 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting 8 til Gwen:" I had my daughter just before i turned 17 and got pregnant with this one at 21. I waited until 16w, partially ... [snip!] ... goods, sadly. I gave my daughter the ultrasound and she ran in to my mom's house and yelled " LOOK I HAVE A BROTHER OR SISTER!""


lol I wanted to wait till I found out what this baby is but thats not for another month and I'm already getting a lil bump so thats out of the picture.lol
Thats what I wanted to do.Give the ultrasound to my son and he could give it to them =)

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" Okay if she was 16 or 17 she would be 19 or 20.. still not 21. Not that it really matters. OP I would ... [snip!] ... since you are a grown up with a SO and one kid already, and probably have a pretty good reaction to what her response will be."</blockquote>



Your Maths is shit. It's adds up fine.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting Mommy&Babyy:" I got pregnant at 16 a month before my 17 birthday and had my son a couple of weeks before I turned 18 and im about to turn 21 so Im rite there. "


A month before turning 17 + a couple weeks before turning 18= record long pregnancy.



I had to edit... typed a 6 instead of 7.. still off IMO.

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" A month before turning 16 + a couple weeks before turning 18= record long pregnancy. "</blockquote>




She said she was pregnant a month before turning 17. Just stop. You look like a twit.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" A month before turning 16 + a couple weeks before turning 18= record long pregnancy. "


I thought that said a couple months before 18



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