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hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" REALLY PEOPLE! I just posted saying that I am a LITTLE AWAY FROM TURNING 21!!!!! For the people who ... [snip!] ... REALLY APPRICIATE IT =) & to the people who just wanna be talking bout how the ages dont match KEEP BEING STUCK ON THAT !!"</blockquote>



I think you're worry about nothing, honestly! While living in your parents house it's not ideal to have another baby. But you've graduated college (I think I read?) she may be a bit upset but you're not a teen anymore! And your son is 3. Not only 3 months old lol.
I was worried telling my mum I was pregnant again and I was 23! She was a bit shocked but wasn't upset. Well she didn't show it anyway lol
Good luck!

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 8 til Gwen:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" A month before turning 16 + a ... [snip!] ... Uh... no. If she was 8ish weeks when she turned 16 she would have had the baby 4ish weeks before she turned 18 :?"</blockquote>



That's wrong too lol.

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" In 2 weeks ill be 4 months and a week after that I have my Gender ultrasound.(@ 17 weeks). So If i ... [snip!] ... 17 weeks). So If i can pull it off for another 3 weeks I can tell them that they are having a grandson or granddaughter =)"</blockquote>



Shit how have you hid it for so long lol

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting hobbit*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 8 til Gwen:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ... [snip!] ... when she turned 16 she would have had the baby 4ish weeks before she turned 18 :?"</blockquote> That's wrong too lol."

going by what she said (weeks vs months they were off) but if she really meant months not weeks, it adds up.
And I just ^ignored that because she quoted and posted way after I edited.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" That might hurt their feelings.. you live with them. Have you told people IRL? I mean, could it get back via the grapevine? "</blockquote>




How? Either way they find out she is pregnant and they get to know boy or girl. She is already 14 weeks.

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

Honestly, knowing how far along you are, if I was your mum I'd be upset that you felt like you couldn't tell me. I hid my pregnancy from my dad until I was like 20something weeks and he was devistated when I told him because he thought I felt like I couldn't tell him..
In the end he found out through my aunty!
Tell your parents before someone else does.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20911 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting hobbit*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 8 til Gwen:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ... [snip!] ... when she turned 16 she would have had the baby 4ish weeks before she turned 18 :?"</blockquote> That's wrong too lol."


yes it is. oh well, whatever. lmao

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 8 til Gwen:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ... [snip!] ... when she turned 16 she would have had the baby 4ish weeks before she turned 18 :?"</blockquote> That's wrong too lol."</blockquote>
No it's not? 52-40=12 (8+4)

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" REALLY PEOPLE! I just posted saying that I ... [snip!] ... my mum I was pregnant again and I was 23! She was a bit shocked but wasn't upset. Well she didn't show it anyway lol Good luck!"</blockquote>




Graduated HS in college

Juni&Janel's Mommy 2 kids; Ventura, California 32 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting hobbit*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" REALLY PEOPLE! I just posted saying that I ... [snip!] ... my mum I was pregnant again and I was 23! She was a bit shocked but wasn't upset. Well she didn't show it anyway lol Good luck!"


I dont think shes going to be really upset like she was with my first but its still that lil nervousness of telling them.



I havent gained any weight at all I've accually lost 15lbs, so you cant really tell but now Im getting a lil bump so ive been wearing loose shirts and sweaters lol

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 8 til Gwen:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 8 til Gwen:</b>" ... [snip!] ... 4ish weeks before she turned 18 :?"</blockquote> That's wrong too lol."</blockquote> No it's not? 52-40=12 (8+4)"</blockquote>




Hang on. I'm not too good with numbers lol. I have I really think about this stuff...



If she's 8weeks ON her birthday, and has the baby 4 weeks BEFORE her next birthday, wouldn't that means she's been pregnant for over a year??
Oh fk this I give up lol. I'm so confused.
Sorry!




Eta
Yea, nah, it's way off. Lol say your lmp was 1st jan (because this is easy lol) so on your bday you're exactly 8 weeks, which is 26th feb. baby is due 8th October. That's wayyyy more than 4ish weeks before your birthday. It's like 4 months.
I like to explain things the long and difficult way lol.

Juni&Janel's Mommy 2 kids; Ventura, California 32 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting hobbit*:" Honestly, knowing how far along you are, if I was your mum I'd be upset that you felt like you couldn't ... [snip!] ... I felt like I couldn't tell him.. In the end he found out through my aunty! Tell your parents before someone else does."


Hopefully she doesnt get upset. and the good part is that the only ones that know im pregnant are my sons godparents which they are going to be this babys godparents too but i kno they def wouldnt tell my parents.



My son always says tho that I have a fishy and as soon as i hear him say that I try and make him laugh or i tell him that the power rangers are on tv so he can leave lol lucky they have not caught him saying it so loud

Juni&Janel's Mommy 2 kids; Ventura, California 32 posts
28th Feb '13
Quoting hobbit*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 8 til Gwen:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" ... [snip!] ... next birthday, wouldn't that means she's been pregnant for over a year?? Oh fk this I give up lol. I'm so confused. Sorry!"


SO you guys arent so confused with the math Ill give you dates okay



On my 17 birthday I was around 12 weeks or more
I had my son at abot 17 1/2 a lil more
My son turns 4 in December
I turn 21 In June



THERE YOU GO!

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" Hopefully she doesnt get upset. and the good part is that the only ones that know im pregnant are my ... [snip!] ... him laugh or i tell him that the power rangers are on tv so he can leave lol lucky they have not caught him saying it so loud"</blockquote>




Wow does your son know?
My son was 3 too when I was preg with my first daughter. He told my brother "mummy has a baby in her tummy" my brother looked at me like wtf :shock: I just laughed and said he's started telling stories lol awkward!

hobbit* 3 kids; New Zealand 44783 posts
28th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy&Babyy:</b>" SO you guys arent so confused with the math Ill give you dates okay On my 17 birthday I was around ... [snip!] ... was around 12 weeks or more I had my son at abot 17 1/2 a lil more My son turns 4 in December I turn 21 In June THERE YOU GO!"</blockquote>

I was confused with what she was saying




It's ok I believe you :P :wink: