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This b***h wants me to give the baby to her. Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
3rd Mar '13

My mom's friend has been trying to adopt for a while now. My mom knows my situation (if you don't want to go back and look, condensed version: I was drugged (I think) and raped and I am now pregnant). She told her friend that I was gonna have an abortion and her friend called me. I answered and she was like, asking me if i knew what I was doing, how happy I could make somebody. I was like okay, well what is the point of this? She said that she wanted me to carry the baby and then let her adopt it. I told her I was sorry but that I was definitely going to have an abortion. She went CRAZYYYYY. She was yelling at me saying it's not fair that I'm a stupid young wh**e and I've been pregnant twice now but she can't get pregnant when she would be way better etc. etc. etc. I just hung up on her after she refused to listen to anything I had to say. b***h is crazy. The funny thing is though that she wants a baby so bad right, I have a cousin who is 15 and pregnant with her second who wants to give the baby up. If she would have listened to me I could have given her my cousin's number and everything would have been fine.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7830 posts
3rd Mar '13

Maybe you should go ahead...Call her...Explain to her...and speak to your cousin about it.



Are you still planning on having an abortion?

lovemyboyfriend 16 kids; Texas 32385 posts
3rd Mar '13

Yeah, she sounds desperate for a baby, and as much as I feel for her, it was not her place to even make a call like that.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Oceanside, CA, United States 112670 posts
status 3rd Mar '13

I'm sorry she said those things to you, they arent true.

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18554 posts
3rd Mar '13
Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" My mom's friend has been trying to adopt for a while now. My mom knows my situation (if you don't want ... [snip!] ... the baby up. If she would have listened to me I could have given her my cousin's number and everything would have been fine."


:shock:



wow, wtf? im sorry girl...:(

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20867 posts
3rd Mar '13

That is so fucked up, what f**king nerve :?

♥. 2 kids; making moves in, TX, United States 1114 posts
3rd Mar '13

It's your body, your choice.
I don't blame you for hanging up, tough situation.
Good luck !

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7830 posts
3rd Mar '13
Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" Yeah, she sounds desperate for a baby, and as much as I feel for her, it was not her place to even make a call like that."


I feel the same. I know emotions can run kind of high when you are wanting a child, but you can't have one....And then you see all these people that don't deserve children (not stating that OP doesn't deserve children, but...Speaking in general) getting pregnant. But she definitely reacted in a very inappropriate way.

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
3rd Mar '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Maybe you should go ahead...Call her...Explain to her...and speak to your cousin about it. Are you still planning on having an abortion?"


Absolutely. I have an appointment Tuesday.

[Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker] ; 18 kids; noneya, TN, United States 3245 posts
3rd Mar '13

I felt genuinely bad for chick until she called you a stupid wh**e. Yeah...like that's going to makw you want to give her the baby. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
3rd Mar '13

Thanks everyone. I knew it wasn't just me thinking that she was unbelievably rude, my mom called me and bitched at me for hanging up on her.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 54519 posts
3rd Mar '13

I wouldn't want a psycho like that raising anyone's baby haha, don't give her your cousins number and forget she said all that

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
3rd Mar '13
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wouldn't want a psycho like that raising anyone's baby haha, don't give her your cousins number and forget she said all that "


That's what I was thinking lol.

Elliot Grace (18 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18230 posts
status 3rd Mar '13

Ugh i just your last thread and I am so sorry. You are so strong and I don't blame you for your choice of abortion. That woman had no right.

IOnlyMakeBoys (B.B.M) 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Texas 4754 posts
3rd Mar '13
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wouldn't want a psycho like that raising anyone's baby haha, don't give her your cousins number and forget she said all that "


This she sounds like one of the people you see on the news stealing peoples babys